Honestly, this sounds an awful lot like the college kids renting a house (in this case each room seems to have had an entrance) and shares the rest of the house situation. Yes, maybe technically the farmhouse wasn’t zoned for that….but it’s not exactly a sinister living situation.
KM, I am so sorry you are having to go through that, esp. after losing your father in that manner. It is hard enough losing a parent, and then having to try to settle the estate - esp when there are warring factions and other complications involved (as in my case with my father’s estate). But a wrongful death adds a whole 'nuther level of stress and sorrow. My deepest condolences.
I have to say that I finally decided to try the ignore feature for a couple of posters. So far, I like it.
It’s just a tiny bit confusing when people reply to posts that I can’t see, but since I know I’ve seen the content in all those unseen posts a million times before, it’s really not much of a loss.
And it certainly makes it much faster and easier to catch up on the threads without scrolling through all the attempts at diversionary sidetracks!
We could have used you in our case! Distant state, obsessed with forms. Parent had a friend who was a retired military nurse who knew all the jargon. Regular nurse was ineffective. Forms had to be signed off by a doctor, what kind not specified. So we used a professor friend who had a Ph.D in art history. It was not a lawsuit, just a (successful) application for funds that had been wrongfully denied.
I think you made a good point @BrownDerby, everyone lived contentedly in that house, divided however it was divided, shared however it was shared until Lauren Kanarek got jealous and decided to Finish the Bastard.
He did not have the right to rip out the smoke alarms in a living unit he had agreed to rent to others. As a landlord he is obligated to maintain its habitability.