I’ve come to the c0nclusion that they are similar types to LK. On this board, the agents shame, blame, and gaslight. On other boards, they laugh while they do it.
The agents are wannabes. We feel frustrated being forced to put up with them while they abuse us for LKs benefit and amusement. It’s hard not to respond d to them because we want to protect ourselves from their abuse. I d9nt know what the answer is on this board, but giving narcissists voice is something COTH should take seriously. I don’t know why they allow it.
In all fairness you can’t ask people to play Psychologist. They have to allow them until there’s a violation of rules.
In all fairness you’d think refusing to give abusers and trolls a platform to abuse the horse community would be important to them. It’s a private board. They don’t have to put up with people who are lying on their platform.
A long time ago certain people like narcissists learned that most folks just don’t have the stomach for a fight. So these narcissists count on that. They plot and strategize seeking weakness and then they exploit that weakness.
When people see the narcissist in action they hunker back, hoping to stay out of the fray. Hoping to not become a target themselves. The narcissist sees that also and exploits that.
A long time ago I had in my life a narcissist intertwined with other friends I hold dear and was unwilling to lose as parting from narcissists often means leaving mutual relationships behind. I was unwilling to do so so I spent a few years just being blah to the narcissist and giving them no more personal information to later use against me.
I ended up planning my break very well timing it to a group conflict where we all simultaneously up and left.
LK immediately set off alarms with the over the top behaviour and when it targeted me I knew exactly what to do thanks to narc from so long ago.
If anyone is being victimized by a narcissist hit YouTube and watch the thousands of videos so you are equipped to play 15D chess too so that your Queen isn’t sacrificed but rather banishes the narc forever from your life.
We all are. Everytime we come here and have to pick our way through her Agent’s posts lying on this board.
I’m sorry that happened to you, KM. Good advice.
Consider maybe other factors at play. I well imagine the pushy K tactic of calling superiors and threatening lawsuit and being abrasive. And at least once the lies came out in court she was gone.
Thanks.
If a bit of a fight is what it takes then so be it. I’ve decided that maybe, just maybe, some silent user whose existence we’re unaware of is quietly watching and learning so that one day they too might break free or better heal from having done so.
One of the lasting damage is the abused blaming themselves for being abused. For being manipulated. For allowing it to happen. Maybe by watching this drama they will learn that narcs are indeed master manipulators who have practiced their craft since birth. People who indeed see themselves as 22D chess players. Masters at planning.
And thank God they do. It makes them weak.
Hi @Moderator1,
I’m trying to post the below comment. I’m getting an error message saying it is too similar to something I just posted. I’ve never posted anything resembling this comment. I was trying to respond to Jealoushe’s comment of “whoa he also said he thinks MB was putting on a show at the trial?” on the MB Civil Case thread.
Help. Thanks!
Look again. He enumerated the perceived facts of the case from each viewpoint: one viewpoint being that he intentionally shot her; the other viewpoint being that he didn’t.
ETA: Never mind @Moderator1. It just popped up 3 times. 
It was great entertainment and I love his dead-pan style, but I was surprised he brought up the bit about LK not being allowed in the family home after KK (Seeker) said several times that wasn’t true and she was welcome there. I imagine, with his background, he’s not going to go around throwing out “fake news”, so I guess it IS true after all. 
Thank you so much for doing this for us! It makes it so much easier to access this information.
Right there with you.
It just proves that some posters are not here to make a stand for their side or have a conversation about the situation, they are here simply to pick a fight and they seem to enjoy simply being difficult for the sake of being difficult.
A different kind of person than Lauren Kanarek but still not the type of person that is in this world for the better of society.
I guess it is a prime example of a client getting what she paid for. 
I hope the same, although my expectations are low. It’s New Jersey, after all.
New day, New agenda.
I say we take up a quick monetary collection and Venmo it to Mr Silver to post a new filing today for our reading enjoyment. I suspect he still has issues to debate!
From what I understand from what has been posted, Michael does not even know what is going on, so it is one step further than not caring what anyone else does.
As someone who read all the threads over the last few years without participating, (so no emotional attachment to a POV) it became really clear what people’s agendas were / are.
Certain posters come across like a toddler who has heard Mommy say a bad word so they repeat it gleefully in public knowing its going to wind her up.
Ad nauseum
In every thread
Doing it solely to get a rise out of you. I don’t even think they believe a word of the poison that drips from their fingers, they just know it is effective in getting a response.
Let them spout their nonsense, as they get more and more brazen in their spewing of straw grasping, mud slinging, downright nasty LaLaesqueness all they are doing is publicly outing themselves as being really not very nice people.
Much the same as the flying monkey ringmaster does, only they are a pitifully poor replica of her because she isn’t playing at being vile, she really is.
Flag away if you feel this message applies to you and if it offends you, you poor hard done by poppets, I really don’t care.
IIRC, there was some suggestion on another thread that he was involved with the film industry at one time. And when the film genre was mentioned, the Mods stepped in and either shut the thread down or edited/removed those posts. It apparently struck a nerve with someone… 
I don’t think I knew that she was a smoker, but that would certainly be a good reason to disable smoke detectors.
That error message can just be ignored.
It is not something that makes it so you can’t post, it is just a warning heads up to you (and has been very wrong for several things lately for me too).
