Michael/ Lauren civil trial update February 9

[DownYonder]

@3PonyFarm

It says 2:00 Remote with Eisner. Do you remember the website where you watch proceedings? I was trying to find it.

Would it be here? https://www.njcourts.gov/public/channels

Or is that only for actual court sessions?

[3PonyFarm]

Thanks! I will check it out. I don’t remember if the last case management conference was shown but I thought I would check later just to see if it was.

[eggbutt]

@Knights_Mom

That was said. No evidence was provided.

Is it ever?

[eggbutt]

It is interesting what the Kanareks put emphasis on like BNT and the name on the door, yet her vehicles are shot, her horses are nothing to envy, her home needs a complete redo, so obviously it is just the “names” one is associated with.

[trubandloki]

@3PonyFarm

Thanks! I will check it out. I don’t remember if the last case management conference was shown but I thought I would check later just to see if it was.

The last case management conference was not available.

[3PonyFarm]

This one probably won’t be either. Oh well! Hopefully any decisions will be posted soon.

[trubandloki]

@3PonyFarm, if I am remembering correctly, these case management conferences are not a meeting with the judge. They are a meeting with a 3rd party mediator, to discuss how things are going and to see if they can resolve things with out further use of the court’s time.

[3PonyFarm]

Thats what I thought too. Thanks!

[Sdel]

@Inigo-montoya

Nice to see you could join us again. Any insights to add about today?

[Angela_Freda]

@eggbutt

It is interesting what the Kanareks put emphasis on like BNT and the name on the door, yet her vehicles are shot, her horses are nothing to envy, her home needs a complete redo, so obviously it is just the “names” one is associated with

Some people rely on the perceived quality vs the actual substance.
They don’t care if its just veneer, and in fact when they experience the legitimate thing, can’t step up to meet the standards it requires.
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[BigMama1]

I’m going to assume current trainer was recommended by her BNT, so was already pre-approved.

[ohnoO]

I can see this as one of the problems of coming relatively late to the world of horse showing.

The “name on the door” is the trigger. It’s really not that big of a deal.

It’s like getting a simple will written for your widowed mother who has no real property, etc. and insisting that the senior partner (who’s name is on the door) do the job!

Or going to the doctor’s office with a minor boo-boo and insisting that Dr. Jones (who’s name is on the door) see you when the NP/PA/RN would probably do a better job putting a band aid on it and giving you a tetanus shot!

It’s just ignorance and entitlement!

[SillyHorse]

@Knights_Mom

@LiberalSnowflake

About 24 hours upthread I saw HH had said people were “threatening” LKs new BO, and “threatening” LKs new BNT and people were asking for proof of that. Did I miss where that was provided?

That was said. No evidence was provided.

@BigMama1

No evidence was provided because it didn’t happen.

@eggbutt

Is it ever?

One does have to wonder about the motive of someone who would make preposterous statements like these, and then run away when confronted about it. It’s deplorable. I’m looking at you, @hut-ho78.

[jvanrens]

@BigMama1

@LiberalSnowflake

About 24 hours upthread I saw HH had said people were “threatening” LKs new BO, and “threatening” LKs new BNT and people were asking for proof of that. Did I miss where that was provided?

No evidence was provided because it didn’t happen.

Except for in the movies in someone’s head maybe?

[cutter99]

@DownYonder

Do we know for a fact that the trainer in question is himself offended by being described as a “sales horse trainer”?

Or is it perhaps that LK wanted to push the narrative that she was training with a very BNT as yet another way to get a dig in at MB?

Or is it that her own sense of self worth revolves around being perceived as a super promising
“up and comer” so she HAS to be training with a “BNT” (else - in her mind - no one will take her seriously)?

Except there is no such thing as a 42 year old “super promising up and comer”!

Apparently we all know this, but JK and LK missed the memo!

[MHM]

@cutter99

Except there is no such thing as a 42 year old “super promising up and comer”!

Eh. I don’t think it’s the age that precludes being an up and comer as much as the attitude, inability to show up for lessons, etc., etc. That applies whether the person is 16 or 60.

[Unfforgettable]

@cutter99

“super promising up and comer”

is simple narcissistic ego in LK’s world.

[Ambitious_Kate]

@eggbutt

emphasis on like BNT and the name on the door, yet her vehicles are shot, her horses are nothing to envy, her home needs a complete redo, so obviously it is just the “names” one is associated with.

Why are we even entErtaIning the idea of a BNT for her trainer? I thought Ulf stopped training her? Including his not-the-name-on-the-door assistants? Please. Correct me if I am wrong and Ulf is still training her. And if he isn’t, what “BNT” is training her? If not, she’s a regular ammy with regular horses like the rest of us piecing together good trainers to get us where we want ourselves and our horses to be. Good for her. But please stop even mentioning her name in the same breath with some mysterious, hither-to-unnamed BNT. I dont do it. I dont name drop. And if I did train with trainers who winter in welly world, with farms in White Fences, and import clinicians from Europe, which I’m not saying I don’t, I don’t brag about it, and it doesn’t make me any more special than any other ammy on this board.

There is no indication she’s training with a freaking BNT. can we please drop the useless attention by continually hinting that she does.

[Knights_Mom]

@cutter99

@DownYonder

Do we know for a fact that the trainer in question is himself offended by being described as a “sales horse trainer”?

Or is it perhaps that LK wanted to push the narrative that she was training with a very BNT as yet another way to get a dig in at MB?

Or is it that her own sense of self worth revolves around being perceived as a super promising
“up and comer” so she HAS to be training with a “BNT” (else - in her mind - no one will take her seriously)?

Except there is no such thing as a 42 year old “super promising up and comer”!

Apparently we all know this, but JK and LK missed the memo!

Access to funds and drive make it possible. Charlotte Jorst is a good example. She bought great horses and worked her tushy off and could pay for a lot of high level training and has dedicated 1000% to riding.

[Ambitious_Kate]

@Knights_Mom

Access to funds and drive make it possible. Charlotte Jorst is a good example. She bought great horses and worked her tushy off and could pay for a lot of high level training and has dedicated 1000% to riding.

That’s called work ethic. Work ethic will take ypu as far as you ant to go in a sport. Money and name dropping and sleeping in your truck for naps with a heroin habit and canceling lessons doesn’t get you anything but being gossipped about.