It also occurs to me that we’ve had more than one thread where it turns out after a few pages and more questions that the kid that started it doesn’t really own “their horse,” it’s a lesson horse they want advice about. Sometimes I think hoping to be able to march in, Heartland episode style, and save the day with their horse whisperer skills. Sometimes these kids do seem to be surrounded by sub par adults, dangerous programs, equine neglect. But there is nothing you can do if you don’t own the horse.
The other thing that occurs to me is that it’s one thing for a nonhorsey mom to be clueless about horses. But such moms are always very precise about their children! I have never seen a thread started by a parent that wasn’t very precise about the child’s age and skill level (maybe overly optimistic or wrong, but detailed!). ‘DD is 14 and this is her first horse after the pony and she has been in lessons six years and jumps two foot nine at local schooling shows.’ That kind of thing. Very odd to have a parent give no details at all about the child.
Anyhow school is now back in session for January.