I am at a loss on how to lighten him up. He is so heavy and it makes it hard to make any adjustments between fences. We are working on our extensions and collection, but I feel sometimes it just makes matters worse.
I know I don’t canter enough, and I need to do this more. I’ve tried totally dropping the reins, long reins, short reins, middle reins, different bits, half seat, sitting…
How can I get him lighter? I watch videos of people collecting their horses and doing beautiful, gentle canter work. I know some people make it look easy, but my BO watches me and says “I don’t know how you do it” so I’m guessing it looks tough.
Do I just grit through it and do a lot of cantering? Is there something else I can do to help him along.
Bumping him to get him up does a lot of worse than good.
I guess my fear is that I’m going to make him hard mouthed by trying to just hold onto him so much, and I like to pride myself on being “soft handed” and supple wtih our flatwork (his trot work is a dream).