IMO Natural Horsemanship is just horsemanship rebranded. NH has become a catch all type of term, but it is, fundamentally, some principles that have been around a long time. Some of these guys, Parelli, CA, etc, have repackaged those fundamentals and turned it into their own sort of dog n’ pony show. I haven’t paid much attention to Parelli, admittedly, he always struck me as a bit of a hack. CA, to his very minimal credit, does say some things that make sense. However, what he says that could benefit you isn’t groundbreaking or revolutionary. They’re principles a lot of trainers and horsefolk worth their salt already know and would share with you just the same. The rest of his schtick, though, is enough to turn me off. The ego, the snark, the oftentimes predatory behaviour towards horses… No thanks.
I’ll agree and disagree that age of technology we live in provides easy access to unsupervised instruction. It does, that’s not untrue. However, I don’t think the existence of that information is to blame. It’s not bad. The responsibility resides with the provider as well as the consumer. Trainers (or “trainers”) providing material online, whether it’s free or through a subscription, should be reminding their audience that online instruction doesn’t replace in person instruction. On the reverse side of the coin, their audience should be wary enough not to read or watch something and take it as gospel.
Personally, I take lessons from a couple different trainers. Your DVD or Youtube video can’t come out to the arena with you and help you with any road blocks live and in person. Having an experienced, knowledgeable trainer able to work with you and your horse on a consistent basis will do a lot more for you than any other form of instruction. With that being said, I do still watch and read online and I do own some DVD sets. I’ll take away what may work for me and leave what I imagine won’t. I’ll consider what I’ve learned from the trainers I work with and how it may relate to what I’m reading or watching. Sometimes it can bridge the gap between the two. Similarly to taking a clinic, you may get some “a-ha!” moments through a trainer explaining something in their own words.
There’s no one right way. There are ways of accomplishing something, depending on your goals, that may work better than other styles. However, a lot of these guys and gals have developed their methods through trial and error. Of course, you want to minimize the amount of error, but no one is infallible. I think plenty of trainers, too, will admit that they would do over some of the ways they’ve started horses in the past because they made mistakes, or their style has changed, or whatever. Horse training and riding is a non-stop learning experience. It’s not necessarily about “perfect”, it’s about “better”. I respect trainers and horsefolk who at least appear to be rather humble. They’ll admit fault.
For myself, I’m sure there are mistakes I make with my horse. I’m no professional. My timing and feel is probably decent, my riding is fair enough IMO, but who’s to really say. Regardless, I try every day to improve my riding, my understanding, and try to look for advancement in my horse. There are some things I know need work, sometimes it does my head in a little thinking of how to remedy the issue. I may take some thing to the barn, a bit of info or an exercise from somewhere, and test it out. I try and find what works for me.
Some of the folks I like… Buck Brannaman, Todd Bergen, Les Voght, Al Dunning, Warwick Schiller, Sandy Collier, Nick Dowers. Once again, I take what I think works, I leave what I imagine won’t.