If you’re at your own house with your horse and you don’t care if you can’t lead him safely, it’s your problem. When you decide to board him at the barn where I keep my horse you are agreeing that someone else handle him. If he dances off the trailer and can’t be led safely into the barn, yeah it’s still your problem, except now it is everybody else’s issue, too. Why should we assume that you (a) recognize that he has a huge hole in his training, (b) understand it has to be fixed, and © acknowledge that you appear to have either created or tolerated the problem, in which case somebody else should fix it. Please explain to me why Pluvinel’s friend had to tolerate a significant injury to her hand because the owner won’t permit anyone to “correct” her horse. It’s not like she was going to ruin the piaffe, it was a safety issue.
A horse is a horse and they are all pretty much the same when they hit the ground on day one. They think the same way, they learn the same way, they react the same way, and they all live in the moment. They may be genetically loaded to be better at dressage, or chasing cows, or jumping, or carrying kids around at the local lesson barn. They are all the same until we get involved and decide what discipline they will pursue. I can’t think of anything an owner could say to me that would justify their 6-figure FEI dressage horse’s inability to be handled safely. If my 4-figure pleasure horse, so can your expensive warmblood.
There are some basics that all horses should have regardless of what their destiny is. Those are the things they should learn when they are young. It’s the same with human kids and puppies. Why is it relevant if you want them to be an MD in 25 years? They still get toilet trained like everybody else. Sure there is more than one way to lead a horse. I don’t like them behind me, but I will accept it from my own horse when he is licking the back of my jacket. Otherwise he will be next to me.
The thing about NH is that it’s an amorphous brand for something you can’t actually describe. It isn’t a discipline or a methodology. It’s a big bucket filled with “trainers” with amorphous training techniques and clever marketing. It tends to focus on ground work and colt training and not much else, because too many “trainers” don’t get beyond that. Their followers don’t either. They get stuck because they don’t know or don’t care how to correct a problem so they let it slide. They and/or their horse land somewhere where someone else has to cope with them.
A lot of excellent trainers have been dumped into that bucket, in my opinion because they ride in a Western saddle. They shouldn’t be there. They don’t like or use the NH moniker. Too many English riders look down their noses at these “cowboys” and don’t realize that they can make a better horse and rider no matter what the discipline or level. These individuals have the same knowledge, understanding, and talent that we associate with best trainers in specific disciplines and they contribute just as much to the horse world, just in a different way.