I have a new student with several years of riding experience in her past, and is now starting again. She has a good feel for riding, a nice natural seat, and is calm and confident. However, she cannot get her diagonals. She told me that no trainer has ever been able to teach her how to figure it out. She is in her 60’s and has over 30 years of riding, cumulatively in her life. She’s never been in the hunter/jumper realm, but has done endurance, cross country, and western pleasure. She also tried dressage for 2 years, but never got her diagonals, so she decided to go western pleasure instead because it wasn’t worth showing dressage if she couldn’t get the diagonals.
I have tried every trick I know, but she’s just not getting it, so I need some new ideas. I really thought we had it last week, but then this week she could not get it.
I have tried the “ride and fall with leg on the wall” and have her look at the shoulders. That’s a no go. I had her sit the trot and feel it. I said forget about the shoulder, feel his hind end. This is where it finally seemed to click and she could tell me if she was right or wrong, but then this week, it was lost again. I tried having her count the beats out loud, 1, 2, 1, 2, 1,2 and would then tell her you need to be rising on 2 so if you feel yourself posting up on 1, you need to sit a beat. This did not work either. I’ve had her watch another student and tell me from the ground if they were on the correct diagonal or not, and this she could do. So she does know what it is, and which leg she should be posting with, but cannot recreate it in the saddle.
So after 20 minutes last week of trying a multitude of ways, I told her I was coming to COTH to see if there are any other suggestions out there. I know not every person learns the same way, but I’ve always had success with one of the 3 methods above.