Sarahfay,
bloodlines are important in:
–very young horses who aren’t undersaddle yet, to indicate what level of performance they may eventually achieve
–breeding horses (broodmares and stallions)
I’m sure Ali is a lovely, beautiful horse. However his value (20K or whatever based on conformation and bloodlines) is only applicable as a breeding stallion. Other posters aren’t being mean, but a 13yo unbroke or greenbroke registered gelding is generally worth less than $2000, because bloodlines don’t matter in a mature gelding: only performance record does, and Ali doesn’t have one.
I don’t think the majority of posters are deliberately being insulting. But I think many are worried about your safety. Riding a kid-safe trail horse regularly compared to a barely-broke former-stallion, is equivalent to riding a 1-speed with training wheels, compared to motorcross.
If you have a VERY good trainer riding the horse and helping you (via regular lessons), it is possible that this may work out. However, I think other posters feel that for the same money it costs to drive XX miles round trip to pick up Ali, and then pay for the QUALIFIED professional to help you with Ali, you probably could have picked up a more suitable, ready-to-ride-right-away horse closer to home.
As for spelling and grammar, it can be hard to do those on a smart phone. However, they do make posts easier to read, and lend credibility to the poster.
I wish you the best of luck, and want nothing more than to hear followup posts about how well Ali is doing in his new home, and how easy he is for your trainer to ride, and fun and safe for you. I think this scenario tends to be the exception, rather than the norm, but if you have a highly qualified trainer working with you both daily, and time and money to invest, then it is possible.