I have an 8-year-old OTTB mare who is in training 3+ days per week with a very good trainer (predominantly hunter/jumper, but branches out) whom I like and generally trust. However, it seems that my trainer doesn’t quite trust me.
Our original plan was for me to be the primary rider and to take lessons, with one or two pro rides per week. The last time I got on my horse, about a month ago, she was having a stereotypical mare day (I believe she was in heat - not helpful!). She really wanted to chase the five other horses in the ring, admittedly an understandable instinct for a TB who raced for five years. This mare is normally quite hot, but manageable and really very fun. In this one instance, she lost her mind when I insisted that chasing the other horses was not our plan. She reared, hopped, landed, and exploded into a bucking fit. I hit dirt and lost my riding privileges because my trainer thinks that Skip “has my number”, and that the trainer should be the only person riding her for a while.
This has never happened before, and the trainer has not reported anything to me about it happening again. Trainer has seen me ride this mare before, and while she was definitely hot, she was not a complete nutcase. I don’t want to be pushy, but I would like to ride my own horse, whom I really like riding!
Advice?
For some background on the horse’s physical condition, because I know someone will ask, she was thoroughly checked out by an extremely reputable equine lameness vet on 2/6. Mild stiffness in the right stifle, mild footsoreness behind that will be remedied with hind shoes ASAP, and one spot of back ouch (caused by an ill-fitting saddle that was well out of use before this incident) that was injected and is doing much better. Also had teeth done on 1/30. Has been treated for ulcers even though she wasn’t showing significant signs of them, because better safe than sorry with an OTTB who raced heavily.