[QUOTE=pebbles47;8234273]
Wow! You are going to fight this battle to the end just to not be wrong. Why don’t you simply admit that in most who have responded here confirmed that most short stirrup classes have no oxers? And why don’t you cater to your audience? These are kids at a schooling show and their trainer knows what is best for their students. Sounds like you have a personal issue with the trainer? Little kids have a home court advantage? And to somehow believe that more cross rail classes will resolve the issue ignores the fact that kids want a challenge where they won’t feel over-faced. Perhaps one of them had a bad fall and was trying to rebuild their confidence? There could be any number of reasons they didn’t want to jump oxers that particular I have learned that constructive criticism, if listened to, can be helpful.[/QUOTE]
Hers the other one from the trainer…or parent.
But she’s wrong. “Most” on here have not “confirmed” SS classes have no oxers. Far from it, very regional thing in this unrated and not nationally regulated class.
For OP, there is something called “Right fighting”. Proving you are right at all costs. You may be right if you believe watering down courses is wrong but you are as wrong as pebbles47 because there are NO rules to back either side. You may end up thinking you got the last word here but get relieved of your duties- never alienate a paying client over unwritten policies.
Anybody with any customer service background can tell you that and I bet some have within this thread, so have those with a background working at shows where you learn to be aware of the difference between following rules and getting sucked into a pi*sing contest that alientates somebody who paid to be there.
If I were OP, I would delete that post naming the show with the pictures of your exhibitors. Some negative things have been said and anybody Googling the name is going to see this thread, their pictures and all the comments. If I was shopping for a schooling show? I’d skip this one.
Oh, please tell me it was not at your show and nobody had to jump that green and yellow thing linked to. There are specific, written rules about that.
Finally, after deleting that post, why not put a short poll in with your back numbers. ASK the people who support your show what they would like to see. None of your divisions are nationally rated and you are not affiliated with any other club/association. Avoid being right and losing customers and your position.