Ok lets see if I can pull a miracle out of my butt…That miracle being “understanding”
To clarify, I did ask for opinions and I have read them all. And like it or not, I see the valid points mentioned. I will work on my hunting position…that is if we get to hunt again. Down to 14 degrees here tonight. Can ya say “Rock solid ground.” But I do take the critiques seriously. Even though I have been misconstrued as using the eventer teachings as an excuse. It was not intended as such. And furthermore I would never assume myself to be a more or less accomplished rider than any of you. If I by some eggregious wayward step treaded into this territory, I am truly sorry and didn’t intend for that.
Ok now to try to explain a couple of my earlier comments that also came off as excuses. This job I have I have only had for a month now. My ability to invoke change is not yet enacted, though it may be sometime in the future. So I mentioned that there were some elements of my “overall look” in the pics I gave that are out of my control. Not to give myself excuses, but rather to explain their presence in the photos. The first 2 pics are from the hunt 3 days after I started the job. And the last picture was from yesterday.
The horse and I are getting acquainted and yesterday was a much more cohesive ride for us as a team. But sadly Jim only got the one lack luster side shot.
Of the points you have made this is what I heard you all say:
In a “proper” hunt these elements should be changed:
1.) Replace the Charles Owen helmet with a Velvet. (I have 2, easy to do)
2.) Lose the Bit converters
3.) Shift back to a fitted pad
4.) Wear a plain black Melton or remove colors from existing
- Question… I have a Pikeur Diana frock coat, it has been my thought that it’s not advisable to wear b/c it has silver buttons. Am I correct on this? (Of course colors on a borrowed coat is admittedly a far worse offense)
5.) Lose the boots…on the horse
6.) Work to give a better release and tuck my butt down and shoulders back.
Now here’s the next question, and its serious…
Once I change all of these things, those in this hunt are all still doing things their way. Square pads, “Skunk helmets” (Loved that btw) and other things that are not deemed “proper.” So the question is, Who is not proper? Me the groom that conformed to the standards mentioned here, or the members that seem to be re-writing what is “proper” for their hunt???
Overall I have been shocked over and over at the ‘casualness’ and lack of ‘field order’ that I have seen. But then a field of over 150 people, and no hilltoppers leader just blew me away.
I shouldn’t be surprised to hear that these folks are not showing properness, but I guess I am. This is a widely touted hunt that I had expected a much different experience from.
OK anyway, thank you all for your honest answers. I did hear you and I do appreciate your input.
~Emily
Edited to add:
[QUOTE=Jaegermonster;2998150]
And you’re right about the colors. I didn’t mention it because I was under the impression that it was a borrowed coat, the OP hadn’t hunted much, but then I looked at her website and she states that she has been “hunting regularly” for over 10 years with several hunts. She actually was employed as a rider with an MFH and a hunt sec. for a year each. So she should have a black coat and know if her turnout is correct or not after all that hunting.[/QUOTE]
I did work for them, in '92 and '93. And I had forgotten the rules about colors. I should have asked more people I guess, just didn’t. No excuses.