There was so much thought provoking dialog from over the weekend that I think I need to print this thread and spend a few days in the library and try to see if it is possible to sort all this out.
Not being extremely religious myself, I cant comment with any real expertise, only my own thoughts that I formed over the last 30 years or so. One thing that I think has been expressed is that maybe it isnt our place to understand everything, we should just except it. I too, agree with Snowbird, quoted below:
Pacificsolo, I not only respect your beliefs but I envy you for your conviction versus all my doubts and questions.
To imply that your faith might be childish seems complimentary to me. I cant think of a time when life was more satisfying, simple, and pure then childhood. If I could go back, I would in a second.
For me, it makes the most sense that there is one god made up of all the religions. I cant conceive that a God who made us what we are, in all our diversity and unlimited abilities would then limit us in such a way and give us minds to question, but never to find solutions. PacificsoloIm wondering how peaceful you feel with your friendships with those of other religions when you know they will not real eternal salvation at the gates of “heaven”. Were I to believe that, I would be saddened - just as I am to see friends smoking or drugging. I KNOW it is harmful for them and I love them so much it hurts to see them damaging themselves. If I were to believe that only those of my faith were saved and bound for greater things, I would be tortured to see those I love committing eternal suicide. If you truly believe (which I am not questioning) how do you justify accepting this doom of others?
I have yet another question for anyone more familiar with history then myself. Is it not correct that gay and lesbian behavior was acceptable AD? The Greeks, the Romans, and the other Helenistic societies that predate the catholic religion. Im trying to bring up the teachings of my History of Ancient Civilizations class, but am not doing too well. However I do remember a great poet for which the term Lesbian comes from and the island of Lesbos. Wasnt that pre-Christ? Depending upon the answers, seems to me, any acceptance of sexual diversity was wiped away by the forthcoming religions that somehow deemed it improper. So, what (in the religious aspect of eternal life) happened to all the “unsaved” people that were around before Christ and/or conventional religions?
Jair
Hey Retrophish - should the world need to call on me - hope they pair me with you!
Are you flirting with me?? I truly did laugh out loud because I just know you are so cute that I would regret that you are gay as much as I regret when some great guy has a most beautiful girlfreind and one of those unbreakable relationships. (not to mention I am faithfully married) Plus, I’m a great breeder with spectacular kids (not all my doing of course) Were I to have your email, I would have saved these more lurid details for a personal conversation. One point that does come to mind in rereading what I have written is that there could/should/needs to be equal tolerance by the gay community for the straight. Often,comments like “too bad he’s gay” or “what a waste that he’s gay” is taken as some sort of insult and really should be taken as lightly as “too bad he has a girlfriend” or “such a waist he’s dating HER”. (and vice versa of course)
Bertie Thank you for sharing your story. I am sorry for the loss of your brother. It sounds as if he must have been a good communicator judging by the fact that his ex-wife understood him and remained a friend. She as well is a model.
AIDS is another whole topic, and a frightful one at that. There isn’t a person out there who hasn’t felt the effects of this terrible disease. In a positive light though, I am thankful that it is helping everyone understand that they shouldnt be flip with any relationship they get into, no matter what type. Communication and trust have always been essential in relationships, but in this day and age, it is even more evident why. And that is a good thing, just wish there could be a better way then AIDS for the example of why.