Linda’s Side to the Story
We all know there are three sides to every story Pat is lucky I have kept my mouth shut until now, but I feel forced to break my respectful silence. It’s a shame Pat decided to bad mouth not only me but Andrew and Sue to the entire group of Parelli Professionals in the instructor update yesterday. They removed me from the email list and now I see why. I have no interest in a mud-slinging contest, but I am not going to stand by and see the lies and propaganda perpetuated throughout the community.
Fact:
I discovered Pat was having an affair in December 2019. I was shocked and hurt that the man I had devoted my life to would do this to me, but I really should not have been surprised given his negligent and subversive behavior over the years.
For a few months we actually became closer, but he could not change his behavior and in July he suddenly said he didn’t want to work on the marriage, but he wanted me to stay in the business. I told him then that I could no longer be in business with him.
I cannot be in business with a man who has betrayed me. I have not been paid in over three years yet continued to innovate and produce 90% of the educational materials.
Fact:
In July, I gave Pat and his team the opportunity to make a smooth transition, but they chose to lie to instructors and students instead, telling them I was staying in PNH. Pat, Ryan, and Tina tried to make me resign my position on the Board and let Ryan and Tina run the business. They are not capable of running the company and I told Pat that in June when he wanted to promote them but of course my opinion didn’t matter and has not mattered for years.
They kept trying to persuade, cajole me, and even threatened me with bankruptcy while also pretending to the community that nothing was wrong.
Despite what Pat claims about being blindsided by my decision to leave PNH, he has known this since July. I have multiple emails and texts sent to him, Ryan, and Tina in July, Aug, September, October, and November asking them to cancel my courses and not to take any money as I am leaving the company. Still, they keep lying to people about this, have not contacted the students who are enrolled, and when some have asked for their money back they have been told that the courses are not canceled and they only took the courses off the website while Linda decides whether or not she is going to teach them. And, they only took my courses down from the website recently when I threatened to contact the students myself.
If Pat, Ryan or Tina continue to not tell the truth I will publish all the emails and texts that I am preparing for my lawyer.
I have made Pat seven different very reasonable offers to get me out of PNH. Now it’s gone to lawyers he will discover just how reasonable they were. He has made only two offers which were an insult to me, given what I have contributed to him and this business for 30 years.
I even offered to buy Pat out but got no response, and last week Ryan offered to buy each of us out, but Pat declined, and Ryan did not want to co-own the business with Pat.
The business has been mismanaged for years and my many proposals to improve it were dismissed by Pat and not even discussed. He does not want me talking with instructors, tells distributors, staff, and students not to tell me things, and has gone behind my back repeatedly.
At the same time, they threaten me that I will lose my horses because they are owned by the company.
As for Pat’s defamation of Paul “Andrew Wood” Flockhart (which is his full legal name) and his wife, Sue, who were close friends to both of us prior to the divorce, all I can say is Andrew did more to help Parelli than anyone. He revolutionized the Savvy Club back in 2010. That added over 2,000 members and a substantial increase in revenue. But Mark fired him (PNH still owes him $28,000) because, among other things, he pointed out the problems that we needed to fix or the company was going to suffer. He was right.
Still out of loyalty to Pat and me, when asked he generously came back again to help in 2015 and I assured him that Mark would stay out of the picture. Unfortunately, that did not happen and that was the day I stepped back from my management role. The values and principles this company was founded on were not being upheld by my partners.
In the instructor update, Pat’s comments about Andrew being a self-proclaimed marketing legend is ridiculous and obviously designed to denigrate him in your eyes. You only have to look at the 43 books he has written, his performance of PNH in 2010, and the astonishing growth of Happy Horse Happy Life to see the truth and I have never worked with a more truthful and dedicated person.
They go on to refer to our mentor program with total inaccuracy. There were so many pre and current Parelli Professionals that were asking for one so we finally did that. And my curriculum is not at all like the Levels Program that I love and spent years developing. Pat is proud that ex-instructors are teaching the program, yet has been the main reason they all left!
When Pat decided he wanted to live a different life and to not work on our marriage I was left in a terrible position - no income, all our money invested in a poorly managed business, and no settlement in sight, what did they expect me to do? Sit around and hope these inexperienced, so-called CEOs could pull it together? No way. I had told them I was going out on my own back in July and given their hostile behavior I did not feel safe sharing my plans for the future with any of them.
I am creating an amazing new curriculum from scratch using my 30 years of experience and bringing in other experts who were never allowed to shine at PNH.
I could continue to refute the misinformation in his update for pages, but I’ll leave it there for now and let my lawyer handle it. I have had no real say in what went on at Parelli for years, Ryan and Tina even removed me as an admin from my own Linda Parelli Fan Page (after stealing and changing my passwords) and they delete any posts they don’t like, even from FB pages PNH doesn’t own. Head to the Happy Horse Happy Life Facebook page if you want the real story and I am truly grateful for the love and support from instructors and students who know the truth and can see through this shameful attack.
Linda
PS. No one at HHHL is making anyone choose sides as far as we are concerned you can belong to whatever organization you wish.
www.HappyHorseHappyLife.com