What I did, is get the xrays and video sent to me and then hand carry them to the vet, so the vet and seller never communicated with eachother and the seller never got any contact information for the vet.
It’s best if the seller doesn’t know what vet one uses.
It removes all doubt from your mind if anything does go wrong.
Another possibility that I think more and more people are doing with the more expensive horses is getting ultrasounds done in the prepurchase and/or other imaging that will reveal soft tissue problems.
I once bought a horse without that (the vet went over the xrays, and a local clinic did the prepurchase), and when i got the horse, i had the vet look him over. He pointed out a problem and did an ultrasound of the leg, and said, ‘Boy did you get lucky’, as it was just a distended synovial sheath or something like that, and just normal.
I got lucky that time, but I wouldn’t get another horse in the future without having ultrasounds or some additional soft tissue imaging done.
You say the American vet was in on it? Or do you feel that since all the American vet had was xrays, he wouldn’t have been able to see soft tissue problems. Sometimes, though, tendon and ligament injuries do show on xrays.
If a video of the vet exam was not provided, i would not have proceeded.
It’s very sad and it sounds like you’re your own worst critic and feel bad about it already. I think the biggest mistake you made was just assuming the seller was a nice person. You got taken in.
And I think a lot of those horse dealers, in USA or not, can be very charming.
I have also found that MOST dealers have, at one time or another, sold some really nice horses. But I also have found that most of them at one time or another have bought something that just wasn’t that good, or are trying to get rid of something for a friend, so I don’t change my procedures if they have sold a nice horse, even a really great horse.
Some of the dealers are better than others, but I would never assume that an individual wouldn’t at some time or another, have a dodgy horse to sell. I think they’ve all done it.
Saying Thele is a crooked guy that people have to avoid doesn’t really work, because I think everyone needs to be careful no matter who they are buying from. I would have a standard procedure and always follow it, no matter who it was.
I think the best thing when buying a horse is to always be a little bit afraid of the seller.
In the sense that you don’t ever actually assume you can believe what they say, always check for yourself and always use the same procedures regardless of whether you feel the person is a friend or not. Always have a little sense of doubt in your mind.
I hope you can get this horse healed up or somehow get another horse. The saddest thing is the possibility that the person can’t get another horse and can’t even continue riding, because a deal like this takes away all the money the person ever had to get a horse with.
I do think, though, that Germany does have very strict laws about this and that there are some provisions for buyers who feel ripped off. They are very strict on animal-related legal issues and it might not be impossible to be compensated. I just hope it works out for yiou so it isn’t a financial disaster for you.