Pregnant riders support group? :)

35 and a half weeks here. SPG - I hear you on the breathing! Sometimes I have to push down anxiety about not being able to get a good, deep breath of air in. (Don’t ask about the time I almost failed SCUBA certification when I had to take the mask off underwater and freaked out that I couldn’t breath through my note even though I had air attached to my mouth). I saw some friends over the holidays and the first thing they mentioned about the birthing day was when they had the baby and were able to take a big breath of air and how great that felt. So we have that to look forward to (and, since misery loves company, know you are not alone). I am also getting more discomfort from baby’s movements. Yes, it is good that he is moving around, but he feels all squirmy rolling around in there. Sometimes there are kicks and hiccups, but mostly I feel baby’s butt (I think) and back rolling around - I think because space is getting limited in there.

CRTX - you have to be close by now! Any update?

In my last tri, I would take these breaths that were like stair steps. My SO would always ask “what’s wrong???” I would simply reply, I’m trying to get some air.

No recs, just know it does end. For me I literally felt like that was my new reality and I’d be pregnant forever. On the other side I can say I’ll never ever ever ever ever do that again.

27 weeks now.
Had to do the repeat glucose test for GD yesterday :frowning: Had to drink even more of the gross orange stuff than the first time, and they took blood 3 times in the 2 hours I had to wait around - all from the same arm. Not the way I wanted to spend my morning blech. Hoping it come back negative for GD. I see my OB again next week so will find out then if they don’t call me before.

I have several friends (non riders) who are also pregant right now - all due February and March. One is 33 weeks like you SPG and she was in hospital over christmas for a few days after strong contractions. Turns out she wasn’t in labour but they pumped her full of steroids to stimulate the baby’s lung development in case he decided to come early anyways. Scary stuff. I’ve been trying not to look at any of the possible negative outcomes at any stage of this process. Just trying to go day by day and stay positive. But wow that was close to home! It’s sparked Mr. Rescuer into action putting together the furniture that’s been sitting in boxes in our “nursery” :lol:

I went to the pool or soaked in the bathtub. The only 2 places where I couldn’t feel the hurt.

Here, Here! I’ll drink to that.

Coltinator, I can totally relate to that! I’ve never been to the doctor so many times in my life, or had so many blood tests! The second trimester is a bit better than the first though in terms of appointments.

I’m 34 weeks now and have spent the last week getting the baby’s room set up, getting all their stuff washed and the hospital bag packed. Anxiety to get this all done and ready may have been raised by my sister in law having her baby 2 weeks early, while we were visiting for Christmas :slight_smile:

Rescuer, I hope you pass the GD test! It is horrible, we have to do the 3 hour one straight up here. I’m pretty sure the drink they gave me was undiluted lime cordial with extra sugar in it :disgust:

Ok, so when does this luscious hair I’ve heard tails about happen? I was all excited to maybe stop shedding like a golden retriever, and I’m still able to make art on the shower wall with what comes out of my head. Was this all a lie??

Hi everyone! No baby yet - due date is tomorrow!

SPG and Forward Ride - I hate to say it, but this last part is pretty terrible. Earlier in my pregnancy I was convinced that he would arrive at least a little early because I felt like there was no way this go on for so long, but here I am! I’ve read that first time moms on average go 40 weeks 5 days. I just never expected this drawn out experience of contractions and soreness in my abdomen and back for weeks (like menstrual cramps), waking up in the middle of the night with contractions, convinced baby’s arrival is imminent, only to be fooled time and again. To clarify - the contractions have stayed fairly mild (not painful) and haven’t ever gotten longer, stronger, closer together - but each day they are incrementally stronger and more frequent so I often think “it must be close!” - no such luck. I try to keep in mind that this is my body’s way of preparing and hopefully it will make for an easier labor.

I cut way back on work and have my parents here, so we’re all hanging out waiting, going a bit crazy, but I would have felt too crappy to keep up with my normal routine 100% and I feel relaxed knowing that I’ve gotten most of my life stuff in order and on hold for now.

Fingers crossed it happens soon! I’ll be sure to keep you all posted!

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Ok, so when does this luscious hair I’ve heard tails about happen? I was all excited to maybe stop shedding like a golden retriever, and I’m still able to make art on the shower wall with what comes out of my head. Was this all a lie??[/QUOTE]

Mine stopped shedding partway through second trimester. I had thick curly hair to begin with - my head is out of control right now :lol:

Can I ask you ladies when you felt it was time to stop riding?
I am 24 weeks. I have been riding my mare twice a week for about 30 mins. The past two weeks I have cut the work from the normal WTC and lateral work, to just a lot of walking and stetching trot. I feel like I cant get that weighted seat for my canter work (or the energy for it lol).

Thanks!

Good luck CRTX! I am slowly headed down your same road at 36 weeks now. Today was my ultrasound to confirm baby is head down and ready to go. Everything looked good and baby measured 36 weeks and 4 days, so I am mentally advancing my due date 4 days even though Dr. said due dates don’t get adjusted. Sadly, I’ve heard something more like 41.5 weeks is average for first babies - but I know people who had their firsts early! Have you been trying any of the labor inducement techniques? I’ve heard rose hips and/or rose oil can help? Hang in there! It can only go for so long now!

Cruisesmom - I rode my mare regularly through 28 weeks - and by regularly, I mean dressage lessons 2x a week, flat lessons with jumper trainer once or twice a week and a day trail riding. I know everyone says this, but it really is just so personal for everyone. For me, it kept me feeling like myself and there is really no other exercise I like to do. Mare has enjoyed her time off with shoes pulled since about Thanksgiving and I figure I’ll have a trainer start legging her back up right before baby is due so she’ll be ready for me when I am ready to come back maybe 30 (optimistic) days after baby is born. I have been riding my retired guy (strictly walking only unless he jigs for a few strides), but it’s getting tougher to launch myself on to him from the mounting block (I ride him in a bareback pad) these days. And I got a friend to take a picture of me riding yesterday and I do look somewhat ridiculous with this bowling ball tummy. I know this horse super well though (have had him 10 years) and he doesn’t have a spook in him and I know what makes him act dumb. Plus my “trails” now are basically just around the horse stalls or the arena (on Saturday, I practiced all walking dressage tests). For me, the rocking feeling puts baby to sleep and is almost like sitting on the giant birth ball but like on steroids as it lets my hips be open and works my inner thigh a bit (both areas my birthing class teacher said to keep in shape). So, that said, I am probably stepping down to handwalking only at this point, but I say go as long as you feel comfortable and do as much or as little as you feel like :slight_smile:

Just checking in with you all. I’m 33 weeks this week. I had a reality check last Friday that put me in the hospital Friday night. I had a high stress day at work and all of a sudden I got a bloody nose. Didn’t think anything of it, otherwise I felt fine. Thank god I work in a building full of OBGYNs and my boss said, just be safe and have the nurses in the recovery room take your blood pressure. Well it was through the roof. 179/105. They immediately had me lay down and 30 minutes later take it again. It did go down but was still high. 146/99. Called my OB and she had me go over to the hospital. Once at the hospital they brought me up to the P.E.T unit hooked me up to every monitor and discovered I was having contractions. Super scary, I didn’t feel a thing. They did an exam and I wasn’t dilated at all. Hooked me up to an IV for fluids because I was super dehydrated and over the next few hours my contractions stopped and my blood pressure came down. It was quite the experience.

I kept telling the nurses at the hospital the entire time that I couldn’t have my baby right now because my baby shower was the very next day (Saturday).

Lessons I learned.

  1. I’m pregnant and I need to start taking better care of myself. Be better about drinking.

  2. Be prepared for anything from here on out. My legs were hairy, I didn’t shower that morning, and lady-scaping was not up to date. I kept apologizing like crazy to the doctors and nurses, but of course they were sweet and said they have seen worse. I should know as I work in the business and could care less, but it was actually me and I was super embarrassed. Called my wax place today and I have an appointment set for tomorrow and 4 weeks from now… I wont be embarrassed again. Packed my hospital bag. Got things in order at home.

It was a nice dry run, but I would prefer it not happen again until it is time in 7 weeks.

[QUOTE=jhg140;8478782]
Ok, so when does this luscious hair I’ve heard tails about happen? I was all excited to maybe stop shedding like a golden retriever, and I’m still able to make art on the shower wall with what comes out of my head. Was this all a lie??[/QUOTE]

I started noticing thicker hair towards the middle of my second trimester. I naturally have very fine and thin hair, so even thicker, I wouldn’t exactly call it luscious! I do remember asking the same question earlier in my pregnancy, though, with all of the bad side effects I as itching for at least one good one! :lol:

[QUOTE=CRTXLaw;8478832]Hi everyone! No baby yet - due date is tomorrow!

SPG and Forward Ride - I hate to say it, but this last part is pretty terrible. Earlier in my pregnancy I was convinced that he would arrive at least a little early because I felt like there was no way this go on for so long, but here I am! I’ve read that first time moms on average go 40 weeks 5 days. I just never expected this drawn out experience of contractions and soreness in my abdomen and back for weeks (like menstrual cramps), waking up in the middle of the night with contractions, convinced baby’s arrival is imminent, only to be fooled time and again. To clarify - the contractions have stayed fairly mild (not painful) and haven’t ever gotten longer, stronger, closer together - but each day they are incrementally stronger and more frequent so I often think “it must be close!” - no such luck. I try to keep in mind that this is my body’s way of preparing and hopefully it will make for an easier labor.

I cut way back on work and have my parents here, so we’re all hanging out waiting, going a bit crazy, but I would have felt too crappy to keep up with my normal routine 100% and I feel relaxed knowing that I’ve gotten most of my life stuff in order and on hold for now.

Fingers crossed it happens soon! I’ll be sure to keep you all posted![/QUOTE]

Good luck!! I’m not surprised it only gets harder, each week keeps being worse than the last. Not that it’s really horrible yet, only 33 weeks, but I just feel heavy, out of breath, tired, blah. I know many FTMs can go late, here’s hoping I’m not one of them and fingers crossed for you that your baby actually comes soon! Maybe the drawn out contractions will make for a quick delivery when the real thing happens. :slight_smile:

[QUOTE=Cruisesmom;8479058]Can I ask you ladies when you felt it was time to stop riding?
I am 24 weeks. I have been riding my mare twice a week for about 30 mins. The past two weeks I have cut the work from the normal WTC and lateral work, to just a lot of walking and stetching trot. I feel like I cant get that weighted seat for my canter work (or the energy for it lol).[/QUOTE]

My goal was to make it to Thanksgiving (somewhere around 27 weeks) at least just walking, but my last ride was in the middle of October (~20 weeks) because I just wasn’t comfortable anymore in the saddle. Part of my problem was that I work full time so ride in the evenings during the week, but I’d be starving when I got home so I’d eat dinner, and then try to ride quickly after before the sun went down (horse is at home, no lights in the ring) and it was just so uncomfortable on a full stomach. So, I just quit a few weeks earlier than anticipated. If you read through this thread, you’ll hear stories of people who stopped riding immediately and others who ride throughout- just depends on your own comfort and situation.

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JLC, I think we’re just days apart- how are you doing?[/QUOTE]

I’m doing well now! How are you? My exact due date is march 1st. What is yours again?

Yikes, JLC, glad everything is OK for you! My DD is 2/28. I know the feeling of realizing you have to take care of yourself. DH is getting after me to relax more and lay off some of the barn chores at home. I get told to sit down a lot. It’s hard when you’re used to being so active! Luckily I haven’t had any scares, but I’m definitely starting to pay more attention to my body and try to quit before overdoing it more often than not. Hope things stay uneventful for you now until it’s time!

Oh, and on the shaving bit, I totally hear you! I keep stressing about it but I can’t see ‘down there’ anymore (haven’t for many weeks!) to shave and I don’t respond well to waxing- ugh. Oh well. If the doctors are lucky I might get around to shaving my legs at least :lol:

Alright - all you ladies already on the “other side” - did you buy a nursing chair (glider, rocker, whatever)? And if yes - how much do you actually use it.

We are debating what to do about a chair. Buy one or not? If we do, we most certainly will not be buying the expensive ones from the baby stores - holy moly those things are ridiculous. We would be more likely to go find a rocker type from a typical furniture store and avoid the baby markup.

That said - if people don’t really find they get use out of them and are just nursing in bed at night, or sitting in an existing couch or static chair then… I’d love to save the money. But if the whole rocking/gliding movement is key I’d be up for it. Just need the rationale.

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27 weeks now.
Had to do the repeat glucose test for GD yesterday :frowning: Had to drink even more of the gross orange stuff than the first time, and they took blood 3 times in the 2 hours I had to wait around - all from the same arm. Not the way I wanted to spend my morning blech. Hoping it come back negative for GD. I see my OB again next week so will find out then if they don’t call me before.

I have several friends (non riders) who are also pregant right now - all due February and March. One is 33 weeks like you SPG and she was in hospital over christmas for a few days after strong contractions. Turns out she wasn’t in labour but they pumped her full of steroids to stimulate the baby’s lung development in case he decided to come early anyways. Scary stuff. I’ve been trying not to look at any of the possible negative outcomes at any stage of this process. Just trying to go day by day and stay positive. But wow that was close to home! It’s sparked Mr. Rescuer into action putting together the furniture that’s been sitting in boxes in our “nursery” :lol:[/QUOTE]

Hey, I’m right behind you at 25 weeks !

[QUOTE=Rescuer;8480438]
Alright - all you ladies already on the “other side” - did you buy a nursing chair (glider, rocker, whatever)? And if yes - how much do you actually use it.

We are debating what to do about a chair. Buy one or not? If we do, we most certainly will not be buying the expensive ones from the baby stores - holy moly those things are ridiculous. We would be more likely to go find a rocker type from a typical furniture store and avoid the baby markup.

That said - if people don’t really find they get use out of them and are just nursing in bed at night, or sitting in an existing couch or static chair then… I’d love to save the money. But if the whole rocking/gliding movement is key I’d be up for it. Just need the rationale.[/QUOTE]

I bought a glider off of Craigslist for a fraction of what I would have paid. I figured I couldn’t go wrong that way. I will say that for me at least, I live in that thing for nursing. Bed/couch isn’t as comfortable from my experience because i need the back support and something to prop my feet up on (got a storage box from container store so it is dual purpose. Since my LO takes an eternity to nurse, I am glad I have something that is both comfortable and supportive. I don’t know what I would do without it.

Here is a picture of my set up:

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We got the Target one for (I think) $299ish, plus a $50 target gift card. (And you can always create a Target registry, then use your 15% off registray completion discount for it). I forget the brand, but it’s grey. It had great reviews, was super easy to set up and is pretty darn comfortable. Having the foot part is also key. I got a cute apple pouf from Land of Nod for $50ish, and that will double as a seat for LO once he is older. I can’t comment on use with baby yet, but I sure do use it for sitting while DH is assembling other stuff in the baby room. I’ll admit the Pottery Barn ones are very comfy, but they are insane price-wise.

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I bought a glider off of Craigslist for a fraction of what I would have paid. I figured I couldn’t go wrong that way. I will say that for me at least, I live in that thing for nursing. Bed/couch isn’t as comfortable from my experience because i need the back support and something to prop my feet up on (got a storage box from container store so it is dual purpose. Since my LO takes an eternity to nurse, I am glad I have something that is both comfortable and supportive. I don’t know what I would do without it.

Here is a picture of my set up:

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What a beautiful room Nickelodian! Love the elephant theme! and those corner shelves - I might have to steal that idea :slight_smile:

Ok - good to know that they get use. We are going to do a bassinet in our own room for when LO comes home initially so I’m not sure if I’ll end up even going to the baby’s room or not to nurse in the middle of the night… but the plan is to continue nursing as long as possible so once LO has moved into their own crib then I suppose yes I’d be nursing in there more…

So does that chair rock/glide? or is a static chair with a good foot rest sufficient?

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What a beautiful room Nickelodian! Love the elephant theme! and those corner shelves - I might have to steal that idea :slight_smile:

Ok - good to know that they get use. We are going to do a bassinet in our own room for when LO comes home initially so I’m not sure if I’ll end up even going to the baby’s room or not to nurse in the middle of the night… but the plan is to continue nursing as long as possible so once LO has moved into their own crib then I suppose yes I’d be nursing in there more…

So does that chair rock/glide? or is a static chair with a good foot rest sufficient?[/QUOTE]

Thanks! Steal away, I got it from pinterest. That and the rain gutter bookshelves behind my door.

If you wanted to see the rest:

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I swear I didn’t mean to end up with so many things with is name on it, my friends are good to me :smiley: :smiley:

My chair swivels and rocks. I don’t “rock” him per se but I like to be able to adjust around to get comfortable. Trust me when I say I spent A LOT of time in that chair, especially in the beginning. It is a specially designed chair for nursing (baby specialty designer furniture from an affluent area in my city).

So I guess what I’m saying is do not scrimp on the chair!

Even over night I would take him into his room to nurse him. Sitting in bed holding him with my back crunched over and no back support wasn’t cutting it. I use a my breast friend as a shelf and put my baby leaned up against my body, feet propped up on the storage cube, kindle sitting on the “shelf.” Hours and hours to read.