[QUOTE=Bicoastal;7449049]
Thank you for saying I have many positives. I’m crying re-reading this thread, feeling my hopes dashed by circumstances. Dog sports has replaced horses. Horses were my identity, career, social life, etc. [/QUOTE]
I totally understand, I’m in the same boat with dogs replacing horses. :yes:
It sounds like you understand the requirements of the breed, and although I have no desire for a Terv myself, I understand why you would want one. Shelties are still small and bark-y (I have one, I know!), and while a dog like a greyhound might be an awesome apartment dog it is very unlikely to be a MACH or UD candidate.
Honestly, I think your biggest problem is that you are framing yourself poorly in your contact with the breeders. I think this paragraph is what’s killing you.
[I]In a nutshell, I am an apartment dweller with a full time job that has some flexible scheduling and telework perks. I have decided on a two-dog maximum. I have a back disability that yearns for a taller dog that could possibly perform the service task of picking up dropped objects around the house. I do not need a service dog with public access.
[/I]You are active, train regularly, and work full time. Calling your back problem a “disability” conjures up images of a wheelchair bound individual, someone who is unable to work (and therefore unable to pay for dog costs), or one who is of very limited mobility and unable to properly exercise a dog.
If it were me, I would emphasize why I AM a good fit for the breed rather than asking the breeder to draw that conclusion themselves. Highlight that you know things about the breed, and training. Maybe approach this paragraph more along the lines of:
Although I have never owned a Tervuren specifically, I understand the exercise requirements of this breed and feel I am more than able to meet them. I work full-time, but my Papillon and I take a half-hour walk before work, a dog-walker is paid to walk him for a half-hour around 11, and I am home for a third walk and romp around 2pm. I’ve gotten very involved in dog sports- I participate in training classes 2-4 nights per week (I use ______ handling system) and practice obedience daily. I’m fortunate that my job offers telecommuting perks, so my schedule is flexible. On weekends I’m usually trialling or hiking in the woods with my Pap.
While I love my Papillon (who has earned ABC, DEF, and XYZ titles), I am looking to add a second dog. Ideally I am looking for a high-level obedience and agility prospect, and I know Tervurens typically excel in these sports. The temperament, trainability, and drive of these dogs is appealing to me, as is their size (I have a chronic back condition which makes bending down painful, and not having to practically sit on the floor to buckle a collar would be great!).