I have owned my horse since he was 6 months old. He has a swayback (has had it all his life) so I waited a long time to start him. We had the WTC as of 2017 and things were wonderful. He loved having a job! Flash forward to 2018 and he tore his suspensory ligament in his right hind. This was just before we moved to a new barn (from my parents’ backyard) closer to where I work/live. Since he was injured, he began developing separation anxiety and other behavioral issues as well.
I did the PRP injection and the injury did heal. The rehab process has been frustrating to say the least. He is an appendix and full of energy. That coupled with the other behavioral issues he developed make riding at just the walk and some trot difficult. He has become very unpredictable and he has taken to exploding (rearing, bolting) at random things.
He is still limping and as of the latest ultrasound he has developed scar tissue that the vet says needs stretching out. I have him with the trainer who taught him to WTC now who is helping me work through the behavioral issues but he is still limping quite a bit.
My main concern is that he just overall doesn’t seem that happy at the new barn. He is very social and lives in a small in/out turnout alone there. He currently seems happier at the training barn with a larger turnout and a buddy. My other option is to move him back to my parents’ farm an hour from where I live where he could live in a field (coming in to a barn at night) with our other two retired horses. If I did this, he would pretty much be retired as well.
I am in my late 20s myself and will be hopefully starting a human family soon. Riding just isn’t as big a part of my life anymore, but I love this horse so much which is why I keep trying to fix him. I got him when I was 19 without thinking much about my own future. Now I’m what I call a “horse adult”, meaning it is just supposed to be a relaxing extracurricular activity and instead it is currently the biggest stressor in my life. If I sent my horse home, he would probably be happier and I would save the $800/month that is currently flying out the window on board. But I would also miss him and feel like I gave up too soon. Either way, he is mine til he dies, if my parents move or don’t want to have horses, I’ll figure something out for him. I just want him to be happy.
What would you do?
Edit: Just want to be clear the training he is in right now is mostly reminding him of his ground manners and to give him a change of scenery (since he has been going so nutty at the new barn). We are being conservative with the riding and doing only what the vet advised (10 or so minutes of trotting per ride).
Edit again, adding this here: Thank you for all the replies so far! Some of them made me cry! My current BM keeps telling me I just need to be more consistent with him and ride him multiple times a day because he “doesn’t respect me”. I have been trying to do so but with him exploding over little things like horses walking by the indoor to go in or out (there is no outdoor riding option at this farm), it has been really tough and kind of scary I have been at least working him in hand every day. I just feel like he is trying to say he is uncomfortable and unhappy. He was never quite this reactive before…
My other question is this: being half TB, he tends to run, like REALLY run, once in a while when in a field. The other two horses are fairly quiet so he usually settles down within a few minutes but it would still be a concern if I was thinking of trying to bring him back down the road. Does anyone have experience with turning their recovering horse out and having them run on their own once in a while?