Yes, that’s right, sensitizing him to it, not desensitizing. I am in the process of fixing all of the holes I inadvertently put into my gelding’s training. He is a quiet, solid, amiable guy, and I’m grateful for that. But he is and has always been dead sided. I can get him to w/t/c and even leg-yield a little, but it takes a lot more work on my end than it should, and because I’ve ridden him his entire life (he’s 12, and I’m the only person who has ever ridden him) I am entirely to blame for this. I ride with spurs most of the time, as this makes it easier for both of us, because I have to nag him less…though I still have to nag and he’s still really dull to leg aids.
I’ve tried the whip in the past, but he’s just as unconcerned about it as my leg and the spur, unless I haul off and truly “whip” the snot out of him. Then he’s all “What’s your problem, woman??” for about two and a half steps and goes back to his lazy ways.
Do I need to just keep at it. I feel like I probably need to be more consistent and work on my timing. I think in the past I’ve just continued dogging him with my leg and spur and then gotten tired of that and whacked him with the whip as a sort of “Wake UP!” thing, in an ill-timed, emotional fashion that means nothing to him except, “Gee, what’s her problem?”
Should I work with him on the ground for a bit with it? He’s equally lazy when being led. I have to drag him everywhere (except out to hand graze, then he’s quite cooperative…huh.)
I think I’m answering my own questions, but I’d love some feedback or suggestions! I feel bad that I’ve created this issue that I’ve allowed for all this time…and now I’m going to punish him for it? Seems unfair. We have such a great rapport and he’s such a good boy in every other respect.
Thanks for any tips!