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So a bit of background: I bought my horse about 2 months ago, he’s my first horse and we are still somewhat new to each other. The first few weeks, he would bolt all the time. When picking up the trot, the canter, before and after jumps, etc… After that he calmed, but he was incredibly stubborn and oppositional (backing up when I ask him to go forward, slowing down when I ask him to speed up, speeding up when I ask him to slow down…) Now here’s the important part: I’m a jumper, he was a dressage horse who only recently started jumping, I wanted to turn him into a jumper horse. Before, he was bolting to the jumps and after them. Now, unless I have perfect eq and a crop, he will nearly always refuse. Over jumps, he has his ears pinned and his tail swishing around. I don’t have a single picture where his ears are not pinned and his tail is not up in the air. To me, it seems he doesn’t like jumping at all. When I flat him I almost never have to push him to anything, he’s pretty forward on his own. He has so much potential as a jumper, but I don’t want to force my horse to do something he doesn’t want to do. I love him with everything and I don’t mind it all that much if he doesn’t like jumping, it’s just a little disappointing. Please note I’m still inexperienced, any advice or personal stories are really really appreciated.