Thanks for understanding - I appreciate it.
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Good Luck, it is really hard to find the right person, who is willing to be compensated in whatever way that you can… I know I personally get mad at myself when I can’t do what I want to do, and as I said, I have a hard time asking for help; and then I sometimes get mad when someone tries to do too much for me…catch 22!! My husband has figured it out pretty well after 8 years!!
I don’t know about EDS, but it sounds owie…[/QUOTE]
My husband doesn’t get it - but then again, we are only just beginning to unravel what the heck the deal is and HOPEfully what to do about it all, (meds, management, etc)
I have read here that many folks do feel so much better AFTer riding - but I do agree that if you have to let time pass for a while without riding (in my case it’s been a year now) it is quite hard to bring him back into that mindframe- consistantly. Thank goodness for ground based games and activities (from a few trainers- not just one…lol!) otherwise we’d never connect at all.
re: EDS… it’s a connective tissue disorder - - some or all joints are effected, as many other areas of the body- including the teeth, possibly heart and other organs, eyes, etc… I have several joints that sublax very easily - including stuff in my hips, back and SI 's.
My primary concern with bringing my horse back into work is with my ankles and feet. Ankles are soooo stretched out there is “little or nothing” that they can do to help. Over stretched rubberbands, basically.
I am supposed to be wearing braces that go 1/3 up my legs all the time - but most especially on uneven ground. (outside- period) Swelling, nerve discomfort, cramps, etc are all common. I really don’t know if those things are all fibro or what at this point. But the disabling joint laxity is def. EDS…
Did I read here somewhere about rainy days being worse for Fibro for some people? I think I saw that… today was very wet and cooler and boy it was like a Mack Truck ran over me… even with meds, etc… 800mg Ibuprofen, 50 lyrica, and my other asthma stuff, etc
On a more positive note? I hope to be more symptom free tomorrow, as I have help during the day and perhaps - just perhaps - I will be able to walk (quietly) on my horse for a bit… we can only hope - and strive for the best, right?
Thanks again for the support.
K.