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Boston Terrier. I was pet sitting for a woman who had an old Border Collie and a middle aged Boston. I was trying to move the dog over so I could sit on the couch, and I started out asking nicely. He refused and got crabby. I went to give his collar a tug, got crabbier. He ended up growling and snapping at me. That dog got his hiney paddled and never tried that again.
He really wasn’t that bad in comparison to other people’s horror stories, but he was still a nasty little guy.[/QUOTE]
This sequence of events could have been improved.
If a dog “gets crabby”, it can be experienced as confrontational to reach for its collar and that does not generally lead to a positive series of events… Yes, you can get away with it if it is a little dog, but I wonder what would have happened if you had done something different…rung the doorbell? Somehow gotten him off the couch of his own accord, then sat down and thought about how you might deal with this in the future, in terms of your relationship, and managing that specific situation?
Of course you state this dog never did that again, which is great…but never did it to you, or to anyone else? What about the owners?
Many times, a dog trainer or outside person can do something with no evident repercussions, because the dog does not actually view them as a “pack/family member”, but the behavior may persist with family members.