First, I apologize for the length of this post. I’ve owned horses for over 50 years and have always been at boarding stables. Never run into this situation. I’ve been a long time reader and respect the groups opinions.
Some background information: Healthy 17 year old mare presents as suddenly laminitic this past Tuesday… Vet is called, diagnosis confirmed. Blood drawn. Stall side testing indicates infection. X rays show no rotation. Treated with bute, vasodilator and antibiotics, ice baths, soft ride boots. Blood is sent to Cornell for further testing as well as local lab for basic stuff… Stable owner (SO), who currently resides approximately 800 miles away is made aware of the situation and given full access to all medical information.
Vet is there daily as we try to stabilize her condition, but it continues is in extreme pain. X rays confirm the coffin bone has begun to sink. Vet and owner make the heartbreaking decision to do the right thing and euthanize. SO has been kept in the loop all along and is notified by trainer via text of the decision. Owner stays with the horse until her body is removed and after giving myself a brief period of time to compose myself, calls SO directly. Call goes to voice mail. To date, she has never called me back.
Here’s the part where I’m having an issue. SO has called my vet berating her for not getting SO’s permission first before putting the mare down. SO is offsite, has been kept aware of the situation and has absolutely no veterinary training. I’ve never heard of such a thing. Was I supposed to let my horse continue to suffer waiting for her to call back? Any delay would have been inhumane. Our State vet is involved in this due to some of the test results. My reaction to this is to no longer give SO direct access to any information and direct her to go the the State vet.
Did I do anything wrong? I’ve been open and above board with everything. My horse was in horrendous pain, barely able to stand. This was an emergency situation as far as I was concerned. Has the pain of suddenly losing my partner of 9 years made me over sensitive?Is this accepted practice among SOs now?