I’ve bought two custom-made saddles for my horse in the three years I’ve owned her and neither have ever felt like they fit correctly. They were both made for her (and me). (Dresch & JRD respectively). I adore the Dresch made for my gelding and I’m borrowing another JRD that I don’t mind - evidently this mare is hard to fit.
The irony is, I have much better luck with random saddles I borrow than the ones designed for her. I eventually gave up on the Dresch - every time they come out to re-fit, it costs money, and it never helped. I have to re-sell it. It got to the point she was obviously feeling sore. The JRD person has been wonderful but it’s feeling like the same issue - they come out, we shim it or they re-fit it, I ride around and it seems better, but then things quickly unravel and it’s worse than ever.
She’s flatter on her right shoulder and the saddles want to slide right. Even when I can shim them correctly to stay put (hard enough of a task), it can feel like there’s a “hole” under my right hip and it’s difficult to keep my seat in place. It can’t just be my own crookedness, because I have no issues with my other horse. Other people who have ridden in the saddles have commented on how horrible they feel (trainers when I’m traveling and clinicians…).
I have spent a fortune and just, desperately, want a solution - I don’t know if I’m being too impatient and frustrated. Is it typical to take months/ many tries to get the fit right on a new saddle? The best fitting saddle/ best feel I’ve had is the loaner I used for two months from JRD while they were making mine - I am really tempted to ask if they still have it and if I can just buy that one. I feel like that might offend them but I’m starting to lose hope. When they fit poorly, I can tell they really bother her, and I have issues enough keeping her wanting to move forward. Are some horses just really counterintuitive with fit? The more I shim under the right (and I’ve experimented with shims all over the place), the more it slides right. I know she keeps changing as she muscles up, but the “flatter”, older saddles seem to feel better for the both of us.