Well, I was an idiot last night and decided to get on my hot and emotional horse after a day off, a big weather change, in the indoor, and a bridle change. We had a meltdown at the mounting block and he bolted around for a bit, we did a lot of groundwork, and ended by standing quietly by the mounting block (I was too chicken to try to get on again as there was no one there to stand with him). I am feeling guilty because he gave me every warning he was going to be funny and I essentially created the perfect scenario for him to get in trouble because I didnāt listen. So I am not blameless at all, BUT also (flame suit on)-- this was a complete overreaction on his part and not the first time itās happened, so Iām thinking of getting someone with zero emotional ties to the situation to work with him on some simple stuff, ie. baby boot camp.
Does anyone have recommendations for a colt starter/ānatural horsemanshipā person in southern NH/eastern MA/RI? My go-to guy moved a few years ago and I am looking for the next best person. KIND and understanding is a must for my overemotional buddy, but also no BS. Iām also open to other suggestions. I have a trainer I work with one/wk on the fun stuff (3rd/4th level) and heās come a long way with me since Iāve had him but also I want to be able to get on my horse anywhere in the ring without an emotional meltdown.