After 30 years of riding hunters (purely by default as that’s what discipline I began taking lessons in as a child), I can’t shake the thought that I’d like to explore other disciplines.
As a middle-aged woman with a career and young child at home, perhaps it is the endless amount of responsibilities in life that is causing me to lose my “nerve” for jumping??? I don’t know why as I’ve never been injured, but I find that increasingly when I’m jumping, debilitating anxiety takes over. Which has me thinking…if I’m not loving it anymore and I’m not confident doing it anymore, then WHY am I torturing myself? It’s not fair to my horse, and quite frankly why am I paying all this money every month to doubt what I’m doing?
I’m very fortunate to own an absolutely beautiful warmblood who is the quintessential “adult hunter/hack winner extraordinaire”, but I’m wondering…is it possible to switch over to dressage with a “made” hunter? Am I absolutely nuts? I don’t know the first thing about dressage, but I have the desire to learn, and I’m reasonably confident that my horse has the talent to as well. I love LOVE my horse and wouldn’t want to sell her just on account of switching disciplines.
So that brings up the next issue of switching barns. We live in a small area with VERY few barns. Current one we’re at is an A-circuit hunter/jumper barn. I have found a dressage barn in the area to look into, but how do I go about switching barns? My horse has been at the current barn for YEARS. How do I tell them I’m leaving - just give 30 days and say bye? What if I were to switch her her to the dressage barn and then realize that its not right for us? I just don’t want to cause any issues.
Sorry if any of these are "dumb"questions - just looking for some insight or kind advice to help push me along through this little period of uncertainty here - perhaps from someone else who has done this, as well. Thanks for any help!