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not only does my horse stand quietly for me to mount, she sidles over when she sees me get on a mounting block and positions herself for mounting, without my asking.
i taught her this in about 15 minutes. here’s how.
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climb up onto the top of a fence so you are at about the same height you will be once you are in the saddle. Your saddled and bridled horse still has a halter on, and the lead rope is in your hand.
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ask the horse to step forward until the stirrup is in line with your legs.
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ask the horse to move his butt over next to you by rubbing then tapping him steadily and rhythmically on the opposite hindquarters. you can use the popper on the end of your lead rope, or use a carrot stick with a string and popper. this will annoy your horse, and he’ll at first step away from you. but just keep consistently and rhythmically tapping your horse’s butt (on the side away from you) until he tries moving his butt towards you.
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the second he moves his butt towards you, STOP the tapping and rub him with the stick, and tell him what a good boy he is. we aren’t looking for perfection here. just one little step in the right direction is what you reward.
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after rewarding him by doing nothing for a few moments, softly and gently again begin tapping his opposite hip until he again moves it towards you and the fence (remember you are sitting on top of a fence?) again as soon as he moves his butt in your direction STOP the pressure.
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very soon, if your timing is good, your horse will move his butt away from the tapping and towards you. now keep tapping until he is lined up alongside you in the right postion for mounting. just as soon as your horse arrives there, STOP the tapping.
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now your horse is in postion to mount from the fence. but DON"T mount him! instead, love on him. make him feel that this position next to you while you are up above him is the best place to be in the whole world. rub his butt. rub his withers. rub all his favorite rubbing places. standing next to you while you are in an elevated position is his time to get rubbed and loved on.
end of lesson one.
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come back the next day and do the same thing. this time your horse is going swing his butt around towards you just as soon as he sees you climb up on that fence! love on him some more. maybe put your foot in the stirrup a couple of times. if he stands quietly, get off and love on him some more. REWARD the standing quietly by removing the pressure and giving him more love. throw a leg over, then swing it back onto the fence. love on him some more.
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get down from the fence, do something else with your horse on the ground.
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climb back up on the fence and your horse will quickly put himself in position for you to mount. rub on him. love him and tell him how great he is. put your foot in the stirrup and get on. if he stands quietly, then get off. rub him some more. (if he doesn’t stand quietly then make him work his feet until he decides standing quietly is a better deal).
by now you should have a horse that is eager to come to you the minute he sees you get on a fence or a mounting block, and will swing himself into perfect position for you to mount, and will stand quietly.
look for opportunities to just love on your horse when he positions himself for mounting, without mounting him. make it about him and you having some nice bonding time together.
like i said, the horses i have done this with learn it so fast it would make your head spin. i can be anywhere–out on the trail, in a round pen, in a pasture, in the driveway–and the minute my horse sees me step up on a stump, a mounting block, a log, a fence, a slight hill, a rock–anything that make me a bit taller–she swings herself into position for mounting and stands quietly.
once you’ve got that down on the left side, try it on the off side, so your horse will come to you for mounting from either side.[/QUOTE]
That works well, just teach to respond to whatever you use first in other places, make that a lesson in itself.
Seems that should not be said, but I have known people trying to teach something to a horse with a stick, flag, rope swinging, etc, as they have heard, read or watched a video, that didn’t teach the horse about the stick first and then complain because “the horse was scared of the stick”.
Also, for those of us a bit on the crippled side, that don’t climb gracefully on a fence so easily any more, doing that teaching around a mounting block is fine too.