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Is that something you can describe or point me in a direction where I can try and learn more? I feel like I am almost there sometimes, but it remains elusive to me :([/QUOTE]
It’s one of those “you know it when you feel it” things. But I can tell you that it doesn’t come all at once, like one day you don’t have it and the next day you do. It comes in increments, split-second moments that you try to build on.
Having said that, here are a couple exercises I like on the ground.
(BB’s “7 Clinics” DVDs is where I first started playing with it)
Working on a circle with a rope halter, first start with just asking your horse to go around you in a circle. Personally, I walk with my horse because I don’t like him to go in small circles, although I think some people frown on that. Get a nice, steady circle going, where the feel on the rope is just there and only weighs as much as the rope does. It is harder than you think to get a horse to just walk in a circle and maintain a good bend and not look outside of the circle or lean in with his balance. You want to be with him in terms of body posturing - if you get too far ahead of him, you’ll block his forward movement; if you get too far behind him, you’ll be behind the motion and he’ll be sort of dragging you along (plus, it is a dangerous place to be - especially if he wants to look out and then swing his haunches in and take off). You want to be standing around the girth area, but in the middle of the circle, obviously. When I do it, I face sort of forward - maybe 45 degrees between looking at him head-on and looking in exactly the same direction he’s going. Just walk. See if you can maintain forward, tempo, bend.
Once you have a good circle going and you aren’t pulling on the rope, it is just “there,” then change your body position so you walk back toward his haunches (so you are turning from walking forward at his shoulder to changing the angle of your body to face his haunches). Ideally you want him to yield to your pressure and move his haunches away from you and bring the inside hind leg further under the midline of the body and step across his other hind leg. Now, this isn’t going to happen on the first try, so you’ll need to use the lead on your halter to help him move over, timing a bump or half-halt, so to speak, when that inside hind leg leaves the ground. As he’s picking up that leg, step into his haunches (mind your position so you don’t get close enough to be kicked), bump by giving a little tug on the lead in your direction (depending on how soft he is it could be a bump or just a squeeze of the lead) so he bends toward you and he should step under with that hind leg. If he “gets it” then let him stop and soak it in for a bit and then just start again with the circle and then to the yielding of the hind legs.
I hope I gave that a decent explanation.
Now at first it won’t be pretty and there may be some confusion, but if you stick with it, then just what you do with your hand in the circle (open it up as if to lead him in the direction you want to go - he should move just from a quiet positioning of your hand), or how you change your body position, will mean something to him and he’ll move accordingly. That’s feel.
There are other exercises I do like moving from the circle to the yielding and back to the circle again, then do that mixed in with straight lines so that I do that one lap around the arena (maybe a circle at each dressage letter, for example) in each direction. You can do so much with ground work to develop feel. Then when you transfer it to mounted work you’ll understand it more because both you and your horse have developed a baseline of what you want and how it feels to you.