Ok. I will admit this sounds a bit as an attack. Well, it was intended to sound that way to hopefully gain attention as well as spark a dialogue.
As the majority know, I have just recieved my Master’s in Counseling. This by NO MEANS qualifies me to say what I will say, nor, conversely does it disqulify me. I mention it to properly disclose who I am so that nobody can attack me from a manipulative perspective (you can see I have been on this bb for a while )
This is how I see it. You can agree, disagree or not participate. I do want a good discussion, one without trolls and one without personal attacks. These are my only two rules. If people fail to comply, I will lock the thread.
It has struck me that the majority of equestrians are rather dysfunctional as a whole. I realize that the word is one that is thrown around a lot, so let me place it in a working definition for this discussion: Dysfunction is when people either lack healthy emotional skills, refuse to obey other people’s boundaries, do not have boundaries of their own, and who shut other people out of their lives simply because they do not agree completely with other people’s philosphies.
Granted, this is the definition I am using for the sake of this thread, but if anyone adds to it, fine by me…just keep it obvious so that others can follow.
Based on this definition, I have good reason to believe that our equestrian world is full of dysfunction and I would like to know what others in this industry think. I would make a bet (virtual of course!) that per capita, this industry contains more people with personality disorders than most other hobbies/businesses. I do not know this for a fact…it is merely specualation derived from 23 years being involved with horse people.
I also want to know why the majority of us just accept “that’s the way it is” because we are too afraid to fight the ridiculous personalities that try to control some parts of this industry.
Believe it or not, there is no person I am thinking of in particular as I write this!
My background is hunter/jumper and therefore that is my reason for placing it in this forum. If this needs to be moved, please do so, Erin et al!
Alright, please play nice but please also be forth-comming. Your honesty will be more helpful!
On deck…GO!