I don’t know how to ask for a flying change either. I grew up riding some fantastic but very green ponies, and flying changes were not among their skills. They’d jump anything you pointed them at, though.
Can you use a colored pad during the dressage phase of a schooling CT, is it strictly black or white for dressage, always?
And how the hell do you change your whip over the neck without getting your reins and whip horribly tangled?! (In hunterland, where I am from, we used to just pull the whip up parallel to the shoulder till it cleared the withers and then switch hands and put it back down where it belonged.) My eventing trainer’s been working with me on the “proper” way to change your whip hand, but this apparently requires more coordination than I have.
I’m quite amused at the number of different phrases people have come up with to help them remember the proper order of dressage letters. The one I was taught: All King Edward’s Horses Carry Many Bloody Fools.
A tip on poulticing – Walmart’s shop towels (the heavy-duty blue paper towel-type things) are great for poulticing. They conform to the leg much better than wet brown bags and are more durable than paper towels. I’d always heard that saran wrap was for sweating, not poulticing. Anyone?