I have a somewhat silly problem… Lazy horses reveal all the flaws in my riding. I am used to forward, maybe a little spooky or looky, maybe needs a little pulling down type horses. I actually do pretty well with these guys, I can usually convince very forward horses to go quietly in a light contact. I seem to have a pretty chilly seat (opposite of the “hot seat” thread)–I can stay on a buck or spook but I don’t have any driving force and my legs tend to stay light or off.
Then I go to a new barn and it’s just a mess. They (completely understandably) put me on old Mr. Fallsasleep. Walking is OK, Fallsasleep can at least recognize that I don’t believe him when he’s “sooooo tired, can’t move”. Trot, not the worst ever, at least Fallsasleep usually has a smooth trot–but sometimes devolves into what you might call a jog, and I’m definitely doing the “squeeze squeeze squeeze” nagging post, which I don’t really like.
Then we get to the canter. Or we don’t get to the canter, we get to a faster trot. Or maybe Fallsasleep picks up the canter easily enough, but then falls then back to the trot every few strides…sometimes in the middle of a line of jumps. Sometimes we get the ugly scene with the reins in one hand and the stick in the other. And at least some of it is my fault, because I do tend to drop contact when asking for a canter. And clearly, I am not good at the strong, unambiguous signals and driving seat that these guys need.
After watching me ride a few times, they need Fallsasleep for some timid beginner and move me to a more forward horse and I am back to a super light seat, which is one resolution to the problem but hasn’t really improved me as a rider. Clearly Fallsasleep is the Office Space of the horse world and won’t suddenly start being brilliant, but I know some riders can at least get a passable ride out of him. Any tips?