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To walk away from what she has with Betsee Parker would take a HUGE amount of courage and integrity. I don’t think many people Tori’s age would be able to do it. My suspicion is that Tori knows what is going on, may even feel bad about it, but realizes this is the only way to get the experience and visibility she needs in order to have a career in this industry.
I hope one day she can be in a position where she can stand up for the horse and call the shots (i.e. no doping).[/QUOTE]
Good points. I don’t know about you all, but when I was in my late teen, I was still very immature. Plus, it was a very tumultuous time wrt physical and social and psychological changes for me. My parent taught me right from wrong, and believe me, when I chose wrong I did everything possible to hide it from my parents. But what if my parents told me that wrong was right??? From a young age??? What then???
A kid who’s been in this pressure cooker of a horse show world where the people he or she most looks up to and depends on are those that either directly or indirectly let the child know that it’s OK to use these questionable and illegal practices to gain an edge with the ultimate goal of winning - how is that kid supposed to know “right” from “wrong” in this situation?
Just like people get duped into making bad financial decisions, maybe the kid’s been “sold” on the use of these substances, and convinced by the adults on whom she is dependent that it’s OK.