Nope, not really. I mean, sure, in a dramatic and untruthful way. But legally there is a distinction and all those many months ago she kept referring to him as 'the murderer" and regardless of how much of a shit he is, he hasn’t been labeled a murderer.
Words matter. Meaning matters. Or we should just sit here and literally write “blah blah blah” at each other. We should be able to trust that we are all (anywhere on this forum) doing our best to be honest in how we portray ourselves and events. In LK’s case, she had a very traumatic event happen to her. But that doesn’t mean she gets a pass at being truthful.
Sheilah