I work at a stable (yes, this is horse related!)once a week or so to help pay for my horse’s board. Most of the time I work Saturdays 8-5, which I like because it’s in the daytime (but awful when you’re smart like me and drink the night before and get three hours of sleep ). The problem is that lately they’ve been wanting me to work Tuesday nights, from six until ten-ish. Not (sob) being able to afford my car, I take the bus. The bus stop is about a ten minute walk away. And, as I’ve found, it’s a little hair raising to be walking alone in the dark in the city and then sitting on a bech by yourself with your back to the paths, waiting for the bus. It’s along a busy highway which is well lit, and there isn’t really anything around besides parks so there aren’t a lot of people around but still…Last time there was this guy lurking (or so it appeared!) at the end of the stable driveway. I pulled out my cell and pretended to be talking to someone and he walked up and asked me to call Alberta Automotive or whatever because his car was broken down. So I did, somewhat apprehensive, and it turned out fine-he was super nice and grateful, but as I was standing there dialing the number I suddenly realized how unsuspecting and vulnerable I am. If he was a wacko, he could’ve done anything and I wouldn’t have known what to do. I don’t even carry and defense things (spray etc.) on me.
So I decided I don’t feel comfortable working the night shifts. My question is can they fire me if I refuse to work when they want me to work? And if they tell me I’ll lose my job what should I do? How unsafe is it? (This city is relatively safe and I always have my wits about me, know where I’m going, walk quickly and confidently etc.) And what are the best ‘defense mechanisms’? I really love having my horse here (even though most people think it’s crazy to pay more for my horse’s board than mine!) and I wouldn’t be able to afford it without working. My mom said she doesn’t want me out at night like that and she’d pay for the cab, but she doesn’t realize that it’d be WAY expensive. (I go to University here, my family all lives elsewhere.)
The people I work with on night shift live right there, and all the lesson people leave after lessons and I still have to do evening feed, so getting a ride isn’t an option.
I wouldn’t feel so bad if my ‘big boss’ wan’t such a jerk. The barn manager is cool, but I have to talk to this other guy who doesn’t seem to know what the word empathy is.