I have an equalizer hitch for my rig. I have an F-250 and a 23-ft long bumper pull. For the first year or so pulling that trailer I didn’t have the equalizer hitch and did some thousand mile round trips with no problem. It’s actually an 8-ft wide trailer and I found it very stable on the road, much more stable than the narrower trailers I’ve pulled in the past.
My sport is combined driving, and at that time I was just hauling one fjord (over the axles) and my marathon carriage in the front of the trailer (it’s basically a two plus one design but bumper pull not gooseneck). I opted to add the equalizer when I added a presentation carriage to the front of the trailer and put the marathon carriage in the bed of the truck. I thought that just added a lot more weight to the nose and bed and I needed to address that (we like our front wheels on the highway!). It makes the trailer remarkably stable when hauling, just about as stable as a gooseneck in my opinion. On my first long trip with it I ended up stuck between two semis crossing one of the most notorious windy spots in Florida as we all three in line went right past a fourth semi parked barely on the side of the road. I was waiting to die, but I could have driven it with my pinky! That said, it’s a real pain to hook up and I generally only use the sway bars when I’m going on long distance drives. Anything under an hour and I’m probably just going to put it on the weight distribution hitch and not use the sway bars. Coincidentally those long drives are generally the only drives I’ve got the rig fully packed with bed and tongue weight as well.
If you do get one just bite the bullet and make it easier on yourself and get an electric hitch while you’re at it. That will Make your life a thousand times easier!