Thanks for the suggestions. Having lived on this site for 4 years with no water softener I know we need one, it is clear from the stains. The issue is that you need a source of unsoftened water for drinking water, both human and pet, and for watering plants . What I am struggling with is… where?
Dog bowls will be in the mudroom and laundry sink is adjacent so it would be handy there. I think I need a source somewhere in the kitchen for drinking water.
Plumber (who is using PEX by the way) initially suggested the reverse osmosis in addition to water softener and I like that idea but DH is balking. Plumber’s alternate suggestion is having a tap that, when you turn to the cold side, will produce unsoftened water. This would only be used for drinking water but I suppose that we would also use cold water for rinsing produce. I don’t want the staining but I also don’t want to walk to the laundry room for drink of water. See my dilemma? Realistically though, nobody likes to drink the well water because of the taste, we drink bottled water from a water cooler. But sometimes we run out and have to drink well water
I also wonder if I need an unsoftened source for the pot filler. Is it safe to use softened water for cooking? Maybe I should make that the only unsoftened source? (other than laundry room)
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