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Well, why on earth would someone want to take your dog away?[/QUOTE]
Given this thread? As an outsider looking in, I’d be worried too. This thread goes way, way, WAY beyond “responsible steward” into the realm of tinfoil hats. The level of paranoia is truly astonishing, and the desire to control is even more shocking.
I have no objections to breeders wanting to make sure a puppy is an appropriate match, doing background checks, calling references or being extremely selective over where a dog goes. But things like retaining half-ownership? Thinking it’s standard operating procedure that someone drive 8+ hours to be interviewed for a dog that is to be a companion, then chastising them for settling on something closer to home? That’s truly crazy.
That is not a person I would want to do ANY sort of business with. Really. I wouldn’t even want to buy a cupcake from them. Much less a living creature.
The OP is right to go whoa, what happens if you die? Get divorced? Go bankrupt? That dog is an asset! It’s property! And contract aside, the courts would have something to say about the asset in bankruptcy or divorce or what-not. Having your dog tied up in bankruptcy or a nasty divorce or probate court?
We do not expect people looking for a $2,500 pleasure horse to knock around on trails to drive 8 hours for a freaking interview or even for a trial ride, and to get the 9th freaking degree and be grilled left, forward, up or down. We don’t chastise them when they say they settled on something closer to home. If a seller did that we’d be running up and down them on this forums and all agreeing “run. Run far, far away”
OP, don’t get into bed with people who think this sort of behavior and model of business is acceptable. Since you don’t want a show dog I’m sure there are some very responsible breeders with nice dogs and appropriate health certifications that will not want become like an overly involved mother in law.