This summer, I moved my horse from a small, backyard operation where I’m renting an apartment (so, in other words, from home), to a low-key show barn. I knew it would be hard, but it was way harder than I expected. It’s only now, almost 2 months in, that I feel like we are back to the level we were at before moving.
So, now that my horse is more settled, I’m starting my first month of full training board. However, this is my second time having a horse in full training. My first time was an absolute disaster. So, I am apprehensive, but I don’t want to come across as controlling, but I also want to know what expectations are reasonable to have so that I don’t, once again, become a total doormat / ATM machine to a trainer who is phoning it in.
If I am being completely honest, I’m not 100% comfortable with the barn’s communication and organization. There are a few different pros who will be alternating rides on my horse depending on the day/schedule. They make an effort to be flexible and accommodating, but the downside is that there’s not a ton of structure. So, for example, there are no set ride times and dates that I can be there and observe. I guess, at the end of the day, if I see real progress, I don’t care when/how they do it. But because of my previous experience, I’m cautious. I would feel better knowing there was a timeline for things like starting over fences, teaching the lead change, etc. Does anyone have advice for when to expect these things in a horse that has a year of basic w/t/c with a low intermediate/beginner rider?