My warmblood mare has always been a bit heavy on the hands from the day she was broke and as she has grown and matured it has only gotten worse, even as she has gotten more training. We have played with a variety of bits through the years, and for the past year I have been exceedingly happy with a 3 ring gag bit for the jumping phases. She is quite light and responsive in it, and it really helps me to pick her up and get her to use her hind end a little more, something she is loathe to do. Unfortunately it is not legal for dressage. I have been riding her in a boucher, as it’s the only bit I know that is legal for dressage and has some leverage, but its just not doing the job. At an end of some dressage lessons my arms are so tired from trying to hold her up/back that they have physically given out on me, and she takes horrible advantage at the canter when I get tired. I can usually get her in the trot, but our dressage canter work is not pretty, which is so frustrating when her canter is quite decent when there is a jump in front of her and a bit she respects in her mouth. I am looking for any/all ideas for bits/bridles that will help me to be able to make it through a dressage lesson/test without killing my arms, especially since we are moving up to training level this summer. I wasn’t sure if a Micklem bridle might help? Any ideas welcome!
Thanks!