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The most important quality in a hunter is safety. The horse should go quietly in a group, stop without a fight, stand patiently at checks, wait its turn at jumps, and jump without refusals. It needs to be calm around new horses and especially calm with the dogs. If that isn’t your mare, a first experience would be more successful with a veteran. Maybe work with your mare out on treks with other horses, on cross country courses, gallop across big fields and ask for immediate responses, etc.
I’m not from America, but when not whipping-in and in pinks, as a female, during formals, I usually wear a black or navy coat with coloured collars while males wouldn’t wear coloured collars. People get in a tizzy over buttons here, but don’t worry about that. The only appropriate neckwear is a white or cream stock tie, tied properly and pinned with a gold pin. A full length, four fold stock is preferred. Breeches can be beige, buff or canary if female. White for very formal/pinks. The helmet should be velvet-style and brimmed - the usual. Boots should be black dress without tan tops for ladies. You’re supposed to wear garters with the boots too. I think people would faint if you wore field boots or straight coat skirts but I think America is more modern on things like that. Hair should be up in the helmet or if very long, braided and placed in the jacket. Flasks in a pocket or in a leather sandwich case secured along the back of the saddle. All members of the mounted field should carry a hunting whip, brown for regular riders.
For the horse, braiding is a must. We do formal English braids where the tail is braided into itself to form a very short polo-type tail; avoids brush and nettles and fun things like that. Bridle should be flat and brown leather without embellishment. Standing martingale and breastplate is usually quite useful. Never use a running martingale. Make sure you have excellent control over the horse so practice some quick stops with the bit of choice. Saddle is to be brown leather, regular English style. Only use a fitted white saddle pad.
Otherwise, go with what is standard with your Hunt and have fun!!![/QUOTE]
I’ve worn field boots and nobody fainted
I was told by the staff that it’s most important I’m safe and comfortable, and they gave me their blessing to wear my field boots. My dress boots are super stiff dressage boots that I would never be able to gallop any distance or jump comfortably in.