[QUOTE=Midge;8896335]
Is it a horse problem or a rider problem?
If it’s a horse problem, is he stopping? Unsound? Not scopey enough? Missing lead changes? Not rateable? Too much on the forehand? Pulling? Behind the bit? hitting the jumps? Not tight with his front end?
If it’s a rider problem, is it mental or physical? Are you afraid? Lack confidence? Unfit? Poor vision? Can’t see the jumps? Don’t now how to put your horse on the outside rein? Pull to the chip? Kick to the long weak one? Hitting your horse in the mouth?
Without knowing more about the problem, there can be no solution offered. Based on the fact that you picked up your toys and went home at the first sign of someone wanting to offer you help tailored to your needs if you’d just answer a couple more questions, I diagnose the problem as you not giving your horse a chance to be a good horse and expecting him to answer your questions without giving him all the info.
Every day, ride the horse you have, not the horse you want, or the horse you expect.[/QUOTE]
Who would you recommend for a horse problem?
Who would you recommend for a stopping horse?
Would it be different from the person you would recommend for a missing lead change? What trainer would you recommend specificallt o tighten up a front end?
Who would you recommend for a rider problem? Who would you recommend specifically if OP has trouble with distances vs who specifically to help OP with the outside rein?
You seem to have different trainers in mind for each of these scenarios and I am curious to see who they all are and who you would have recommended depending on how OP answered your questions, vs how you would have answered had she answered differently.
Or were you not actually planning on providing a single name at all after all those questions?