Haven’t read the entire thread, but I’m an eventer, and I wonder how much of this, on both sides, comes from people feeling offended when someone doesn’t choose the discipline that makes their own heart sing.
I’ve been to hunter/jumper shows, from schooling to the AA’s. Honestly, it ain’t for me. Doesn’t mean I think all the riders suck (some are AMAZING, some are godawful) or can’t care for their horses (some can and some can’t). But, it’s not my scene. I don’t like the emphasis on fashion (for humans and horses), I don’t like the classes offered, and most importnatly I CAN’T STAND THE WAITING AROUND. I’d rather put rusty needles in my eyes than wait around staring at an empty ring waiting for someone to get all their ducks and entourage in a row in order to go in the ring.
But, that doesn’t mean I “hate” hunter jumper folks, or think it’s a stupid discipline that shouldn’t exist. I’ve been uttered absolutely speechless by the beauty of some of the rides and riding I’ve seen there. But, wow, I’m miserable for the majority of the time I’m at a H/J show.
I don’t agree with a lot of the horse management decisions that I see and hear about getting made in that world. But I also disagree with horse management decisions being made in a lot of worlds. I think horses are meant to live out in fields with a buddy and move and eat all day long. I think it makes for happy and sound horses, even at the hgihest levels (I have three actively competing CCI**, moving up to advanced horses here, and they all live out). Obviously, a great many horses from a great many walks of life spend their lives in stalls or in vans living a life that I deem incorrect. And it goes without saying that many people disagree with the “dangerous” and “risky” method of horsekeeping I prefer.
However, I realized reading this thread, that someone saying to me, “meh-I tried evenitng, too crazy, cross country was scary, dressage is boring, everything is a hurry, and the vests are ugly and uncomfortbale–give me the hunter ring anyday . . .” would probably get my back up a bit, and make me feel sensitive. Like, how could you not LOVE MY sport? How could you? :winkgrin:
So I started wondering how much ACTUAL bashing is going on, and how much is just people saying, hey, it’s not for me because of x. y. or z, and that gets interpreted as bashing.