ok, let me let my wine soaked brain get this all down in some succinct way…
Firstly, let me say Bravo to the gal who wrote the letter.
Secondly, to jumpermom, I say “screw the trainer”…she doesn’t deserve anything, and I loved the thought of another poster who gave her great ideas on what to say (gushing about how the posters worked so well and such)
Great thoughts.
Now, my ramblings. I have never bought a horse where a commision has been involved. In fact when I bought Will, I had him trailered to our barn, and my “trainer” rode him and gave me her opinion. Did she get a cut? No. Did she get the horse in full training for 3 months, and then get lesson fees out of me for the next several years? Yes, we both gained ultimately, and were happy.
Thank you Bernie for your insights on the professional side of this. Now, to your hypothetical of the $3K horse in the field. Well, my husband did that recently with a Toyota landcruiser-bought it, cleaned it up ,did some maintenance, sold it for $4K more.
Just last week at our shop, we were told of a new Crosby Prix de Nations saddle for $240. I snapped it up, we have a $600 pricetag on it. Did I tell the shop where they had consigned it that the price was too low? No…I don’t have a problem with that…and I think several posters brought up the unethical sides to that if you were specifically looking for a horse for one person. That I agreed with, you would have to divulge that the horse was $3k in my opinion there.
I guess what saddens me is the taking advantage part of people who are looking for someone trustworthy and knowledgable…there’s the rub. For example, we know some lovely people thru our son’s school. They had nice pony, outgrown by daughter. Bear in mind, parents know squat about horses, but have beacoup bucks in the bank. Trainer says she will sell the horse-turns out the horse world is smaller than they think-they hear back that the price was padded. Then, feeling confident, trainer tries to mess with them again and sell off her supposedly lame horse for a song. The story was that then the person who bought it for a song would then sell him for a pretty penny…had her vet say he was never going to be sound…yet had lined up a schill to be an intermediary and then sell him at top dollar. It got nixed before it came to fruition, but the sad thing here is that these people are hurt, and it just plain stinks.
I was really appalled, and now I have a lack of respect for her–and just feel sorry for these folks who looked to her to guide them. I think it’s a crap shoot to find a gem who will truly guide the neophyte parents through the rigors of horse ownership. It’s a hard enough business for those of us who know horses, and have, what I consider to be a lot of knowledge of my own…but these parents just in it for their kids…
…it’s like some trainers just wring their hands and see dollar signs exuding from their ears!
Well, I hope this wasn’t too rambly and hard to understand…it’s just such a huge thing…and it always frustrates me to see advantage taken of people.
My husband works in the real estate field, as did I , and while I believe the onus is on the buyer to beware and to educate themselves, sometimes it’s too much, and professionals DO need to be consulted…they just need to be held accountable. I have had no qualms about suing my realtor and my contractor when they cheated and misrepresented things to us. If enough people are willing to step forward and be loud about injustices, perhaps some of these unscrupulous folks will lose their shingles, which maybe weren’t worth the paper that they were written on…
oh, and Applesauce, thank you so much for typing out the whole letter. I am late to this party because when I came this am to read the thread, the link wasn’t there, and it frustrated me to no end to not know what everyone was talking about! 
The gene pool could use a little chlorine.