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The horse was dead? well, for whatever reason I didn’t get that from your post. My mistake.
I can only speak of MY experiences, is this person legit? heck if I know…No, not everyone is in it for the right reasons.
The best people IMHO are more real life and have very little online presence-- they are too busy with real clients. Just like trainers. They don’t need to advertise.[/QUOTE]
It wasn’t my post, so possible I could be misreading it, but that’s how it came across to me.
And finding a real AC is nothing like finding a trainer.
If I want to find a trainer, I ask some friends, maybe look at websites and Facebook pages, maybe check some review sites (Yelp, etc), look up show results if I’m interested in showing, and set up some appointments to go out and watch some lessons and training sessions. Before the trainer gets a penny of my money, I have seen them in action, have seen their results, and have a pretty good idea of what I am getting in to and what results I can expect.
I’m not making a decision based on word of mouth; I have first-hand experience.
If I want to find an AC, I have to go by word of mouth (assuming any of my friends have had legitimate experiences, which they have not) or by searching out for the random webpages (which is advertising, and as a sole source of information, not definitively trustworthy). The only way to tell if the AC is a real one or a fake is to pay them and find out.
And if I find a fake, the proponents say “Oh, well, of course there are fakes in the industry. That’s too bad. But some are good. You just have to find the right one. But they don’t advertise. And they are too busy working with current clients to take the concerns of skeptics seriously. They have nothing to prove. Pay them if you want to use them. Just trust us that THIS one is real and not fake like those other 1, 5, or 10 ACs you tried in the past and turned out to be fake.”
It’s really hard to reconcile “this is a legitimate thing” with “but you have to take us on faith (and pay us) to find out, and if you get a cheat, well, that’s just too bad but it happens. Just keep trying.”
I’m willing to be convinced, but–to the extent that it’s like finding a good trainer–I do expect the AC to be willing to offer up more than “trust me, I’m good” before I hand over my money. I expect that of any business.
And that never happens. Blind faith and hand over a check, or nothing’s happening.