Barisone Safe Sport Update

And/or because she loved being the “doyenne” of Hawthorne Hill Farm. She could tell everyone, “I live at Hawthorne Hill Farm, and my trainer is MB, the Olympic rider and trainer.” She could use her “favored status” to lord it over his other clients, the staff, the farriers, the vets, show managers, other competitors, etc. So it was about recognition and self-aggrandizement - and delusions of grandeur.

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Wow! My goodness the hypocrisy. I’m gobsmacked!

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She has the apartment/crash pad on the farm in FL. I don’t know why she couldn’t spend the night there.

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They were off-site when they were initially staying in FL before relocating to NJ to be with MB, being that it was a seasonal rental, paid for by the father, as part of his payments for her “equestrian pursuits”. The supposed apartment on the farm is at the new place in FL, [edit]

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Not always. A friend has epilepsy and it took x years of taking meds and having no seizures before a driver’s license could be procured. Not suggesting that is Lauren’s issue!

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Gobsmacked is not a word that gets a lot of play these days, but it really applies perfectly to so many parts of this whole situation.

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I would be so creeped out to see a fellow boarder behaving like that.

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And best part is, easy to take naps when necessary, all tucked away inside your boulder.

I was not referring to her current situation, I was referring to when she was in Florida with MB.

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Best statement of the week!!

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Well, this turned out to be a very disappointing thread. I was looking forward to “Update” but instead it turned into a rerun from the closed thread. Why posters respond to some of the allegations here is beyond me. I read the first 100 posts and just scrolled through the next 300. Reading the same comments over and over is like banging your head against the wall.

It will probably not be long before this thread gets closed.

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It’s only Monday. Give it time.

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There is an article in the original post that was the update.

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I read the update in the original post but the thread went downhill shortly after.

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Lauren’s taste for mahogany walled, chandelier lighted rings is relatively new. The highly rated, and always full with a wait list, facility she was at for several years in NC is a dusty, old, wooden, perfectly wonderful 60+ year old facility with a wooden indoor arena surrounded by 10×10 and 8x8 stalls on two exterior walls , 2 cold water wash pits, two covered wooden round pens, a large open outdoor ring used for all sorts of open shows (4-H, H/J, English, Western, no dressage), multiple huge pastures with several outbuildings for storage, etc. It is a perfectly marvelous facility in every way to most who board there. The horses are grained 2 times a day, provided with gorgeous NY hay while confined in their stalls, and turned out during the day in winter and night during summer. There are no grooms or extra personal care provided unless a boarder hires someone to perform the service.
LK’s requirements for certain amenities and decor/accommodation seems to have changed quickly once she moved her horses to Barisone Dressage. The comparison would be a nice Best Western to a Ritz Carlton IMO. I totally understand once you’ve been exposed to a grand facility environment one would want to stay or duplicate it if moving unless you felt you and your horses were in danger. A temporary/portable stall such as used at many horse shows would be perfectly suitable for short term emergency situations IMO. Truly afraid beggers can’t be too choosey!

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No further discussion is necessary until MB has been released or a significant amount of time has passed. There simply isn’t anything overly relevant to discuss until that point, so talking about LK is really the only purpose any continued discussion will serve at this time.

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I do have a question, if LK’s trainer quite who is doing the training rides on all of her horses? Are they not getting their regular training rides?

It seems that if they can live happily at their boarding barn in Florida without training rides they could have lived at any number of appropriate barns up north that were made available to her, until she found a trainer that made her happy.

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Probably for the same reason a dryer didn’t get unplugged…

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No, the jury did not say “MB did not shoot LK”. If they had been convinced of that, or even unconvinced that he shot her, he have been found NG instead of NGRI and would be not be in a psychiatric institution right now.

If MB had been found NG on all four counts, I wonder if they would still be doing an investigation now.

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The update wasn’t even an update! His SS status was discussed in the last thread!

This thread was opened, against the moderators instructions, just to continue to same old - same old.

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I have said and keep saying that she should have moved her horses. However, fears for her horses’ safety in a barn with deteriorating relations culminating in her being shot twice are reasonable. It wouldn’t have to be limited to fear of violence as neglect could be as deadly, empty water buckets, neglected small injuries that turn into cellulitis, a missed colic until it is too late.

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