No, that wasn’t what I was “reaching for”. I respect her for not flinching in pursuing her civil suit.
I was saying that the poster expressing pity for MB for having to relive his (alleged) childhood abuse was ironic, given that he had the option to avoid the trial by accepting what looks to me like a generous plea deal, and he chose the trial.
LK and lots of others will have to relive the tragedy, despite having no option to avoid the criminal trial.