First let me say I’m sorry for the loss of your friend, and sorry you and their family still don’t have answers. That’s a horrible place to be.
There’s been a lot of good legal info from @lazaret and @Knights_Mom, and probably others I’ve forgotten as well, but I thank you for including me with some great posters and their comments.
I love the law. I love the processes. I love the puzzle-solving aspects. I love watching attorneys in courtroom action, But I also agree with you that it’s a shame that “True Crime” has become an entertainment genre. It trivializes the real live humans that are caught up in their single worst nightmare, one they can’t wake up from. And quite frankly, it frustrates me that there are so little educational aspects brought into most of the tv shows. I get that the legal field is huge. And in the US, there’s 50 states, with multitudes of counties, cities and other local laws. I still some of those shows would be better served if they included a basic primer on at least one legal aspect of any given case rather than going straight for the shock value.
The thing that bugs me still about this case is that I can’t put the puzzle together. We have a verdict, but I still cannot comprehend why this situation devolved so badly and so rapidly, devastating a whole lot of people in the process. (And I still have my doubts as to how the shooting itself occurred, but that’s just me.) Maybe there will be more clues in the civil trial. And maybe the only thing we can learn from this is when any relationship is falling apart as badly as this one was, somebody needs to just get out.