Someone else said many threads ago that they thought it wasnāt that he was shocked about the recording, he was shocked Mr B had a transcript of the recording. That feels right.
His prescriptions (brought up on COTH by Lauren) demonstrate there was a pdoc in the mix and most do not counsel patients beyond a billable hour (15 minutes). Therapists do the bulk of the work with patients/clients.
I see no point in contacting the barn sheās at. If they donāt know who their client is, or let money talk over having a decent atmosphere, free of drugs and harassment, then they must be totally clueless. I canāt imagine how hard it would be to get her out, with her family doing everything to keep her far away from them, and willing to put money up to do that.
I get the feeling that RGās usefulness has expired with LKās clan. One jury already decided they didnāt believe him or that there was any injury or assault inflicted on him. Thatās not going to improve, especially if he continues to āslip up.ā Thereās not a lot he brings to LKās civil suit, should it go forward, since heās proven himself an unreliable narrator.
Other than laundry, what really does he do? I can see him getting the boot.
Your friend should contact the barn to let them know why she wonāt board there. That would be an acceptable and valid contact, and the farm needs to understand LKās presence is costing them business.
Youāre going back to the zero sum thinking people have always used.
I think it was a just verdict - it acknowledged that MB did in fact shoot her, but also acknowledged that he was not criminally responsible for the act. He will be committed to a mental institution instead of prison.
Why do you imagine LK would be happier or better off if MB had been convicted on all counts, or convicted on two counts? First, if he had been convicted, he would be appealing and the wound would be kept open for another 3 years, without resolution (worse for both MB and LK). Second, how is she better off if heās in prison instead of getting treatment in a mental institution?
I think MB and LK both engaged in zero sum thinking in that last week - both had off ramps and ways they could de- escalate, but instead both chose to escalate.
You literally canāt imagine an interpretation of the situation which is not zero sum, can you? You canāt think beyond āIf I want to support MB, all I can do is trash LK on SMā.
And thanks to the Chronicle and the mods for letting this conversation continue throughout this whole saga.
And thanks to those who have participated politely so that the recent threads have not been locked down for any reason other than starting a fresh one due to sheer volume. That may be a new record on this topic!