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There is one small short conversation not about Buck.
And lots of conversation about people assuming things that are not fair to assume.
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Classy post.
It sounds like a sad situation, and I hope that the people involved in it get whatever help they need, and that they can learn something, and go forward as young adults, and have healthier and more respectful and functional relationships with others in the future.
Otherwiseā¦ they might grow into real jerks over a period of decades, and seriously mistreat the people they have relationships with. And that can result in horribly ugly and messy divorces and a lot of pain for the minor children of these dysfunctional adults, children who are inevitably impacted by this stuff.
I feel sorry for the poor kids affected by the behavior of selfish adults.
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The one short conversation, which has not yet been edited by @MunchingonHay to include the quote about HER family, looks like a direct response to the post above it about Buck. Many of us have read it as such, yet it would be simple to clarify with an edit and quote.
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It does not look like a direct response to the post above it if you know how to use the forum.
If it was a direct response to the post above it, the little reply with the person being replied to (red box on screen shot below) would not show in the upper corner of her post. So that is clue #1 that it is not a reply to the post directly above it.
And any time you are confused what a person is replying to, you can just hit the little reply symbol (also red box on screen shot below) in the upper right corner and see what the person is replying to. Then you do not get egg on your face by assuming things that are not correct.
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It DOES if you are skimming through and not pressing the button, which is what most of us do because we oh have jobs and things do other than dive deep into COTH threads. I donāt know why you are trying to die on this hill, MULTIPLE people have been confused by this. Itās not a big deal, edit the post with the quote.
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See, look at my post above that is a direct reply to you (also with a quote) and you see no reply notification in the upper right corner on that one, because it is directly under your post.
This post, that is also a reply to your post, but has a post between them, has a reply symbol in the upper right corner.
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I am not the one that is wrong here so I am not the one dying on this hill.
I am currently just trying to give you tools on how to use the forum so you do not get mad over something that is not happening in the future.
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I know how the forum works, and I also read it as if it was talking about Buck.
I donāt do a deep dive on every single post.
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FFS everyone! I made a mistake or people are not reading throughly. GIVE IT UP. Perhaps this is a good lesson in making sure you(g) are reading a thread correctly and not jumping to conclusions. And me to think twice before I participate. Heck, someone joined CoTH just to tell me I was 10000% wrong and telling lies, because they were so hot about this whole thing they failed to see I was replying to Annie.
Everyone, Just take a F&$King breath and chill out.
Sorry @phoenixrises , this was not suppose to happen.
And regarding this whole thing about Buck. People make mistakes, and do dumb Sh!t to get themselves arrested. Just because he is Buck, does not mean he is infailliable.
The quicker we take people off the pedestal and stop gooogling them like gods, the better.
Can we be disappointed in his actions, sure. But letās remember that people are innocent until proven guilty. Facts need to be presented and then we can all be Judgy Mcjudgerson.
(and before that statement gets taken out of context, I do not think any person should touch, hit, assult, battery, manipulate, etc any other person regardless of gender, age, etc).
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If they actually READ they wonāt think that
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Iāve been thinking about this, and could it be possible that he has had one too many TBIās? It can certainly cause erratic behavior.
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Tbf, I think the one who joined to refute it is probably a close friend of the ex wife, and judging from another post, just being extraordinary protective over their friend, based on what their friend is allegedly going through. So IF in the heat of the moment, they thought your post was about THEIR friend, who they care deeply about -can you not put yourself in their shoes and see why? Above your post we had someone commenting about a dream about a āplottingā ex wife. Folks are going to be emotional and quick fired over this.
I use the reply to button all the time, as opposed to the quote, Iāve been a member of COTH for over 20 yrs and still made the mistake.
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Yeah I was confused as well, esp since it showed she was replying to the poster above.
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I donāt personally know anyone involved in whatever this is that happened.
I do know plenty of people who have gone through divorces, when young kids were involved.
People from all walks of life melt down and behave like horrible humans during divorce proceedings. Thatās the sad truth
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There are 2 people in this marriage and small children.
Not everything is black and white.
But fact is 1 of them is in police custody which is just sad because it will have impacts foing forward.
There are circumstances that may reach the light of day,and more to the story but itās not for me to share.
I am not a confident of either party but share people who are so itās not speculation.
Let it play out and remember more to this story.
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@judybigredpony as mentioned above, the comments about the Texts are not about Buck and Andrea. Theyāre about a different couple that @MunchingonHay had mentioned.
Em
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So do we even know if Buckās arrest stemmed from a domestic dispute?
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Well he wasnāt charged with domestic battery , just simple battery so I would say no but who knows.
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