<BLOCKQUOTE class=“ip-ubbcode-quote”><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Inverness:
I cannot help but believe that the tone of bitterness and hostility in many of your remarks only succeeds in obscuring your valid contributions to the larger discussion. Why set out to offend those who you would seek to inform and persuade? Wouldn’t calm, well-founded, and rational discourse be a more effective vehicle for your opinions? Why aim to wound and disparage when to do so only belittles your own passionately-held beliefs? Those passionate beliefs - borne of life experience and contemplation - are so much more effectively expressed in the absence of ugliness and ire.
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So TRUE. When someone resorts to such nasty comments, I automatically dismiss everything else they say as hogwash, even though there may be good points hidden within the ugliness. When I found out Rush L. made fun of little 13 year old Chelsea Clinton, I never listened to another word he said. BTW too bad it wasn’t his voice he lost instead of his hearing.
I went away for a while and came back and read many interesting posts.
Snowbird, I hope you realize that the reason you are so healthy is because you are lucky, and not because cigarettes aren’t bad for you. I agree with you in that I don’t want “Big Brother” telling me what to do, what to eat, but has that really happened? I mean, really, I eat what I choose to. Big Brother is not telling me what to eat. There are newspaper articles that talk about nutrition, but they’re just articles, not “big brother”. There are the government guidelines, the pyramid and all, but hey, they are guidelines, not the law. I guess I’m not paranoid. I can also relate to you in being annoyed at paying higher rates for health insurance. I remember when my rate went up just because I hit 35. I was SO upset. I am very health conscious. I eat well, I do yoga, I exersize and here I was paying the same as my very less than health conscious friend, who was overweight, couch potato, smoker, etc. So unfair! Anyway, don’t know what to do about that. But regarding your comment “a chocolate cookie is a chocolate cookie”…well, I’m guessing that is because you are a smoker. Not only is it well documented, but from my own personal experience, smoking deadens your taste buds. I was at a wine tasting; you see my husband and I do love to taste wine & food, come up with tantalizing combinations, etc., it’s fun; and his sister had a cigarrette, so we did too (OK, I smoke about 3 times a year) and then went back to tasting and UG, I couldn’t taste anything. What a waste!!! So anyway, you really are a statistical anomaly, not the norm. My grandmother died from smoking (emphysema)before she turned 72, and it’s pretty common. (But it doesn’t mean I think smoking should be banned or anything DAG.)
I was also interested in reading other’s war stories. My mother was bombed during WWII and said it was pretty darn horrifying. She also has not talked about it much until recently. I mean it’s as horrible as you can think, getting up every day to pick up the pieces, finding out someone you know is dead. And then after the war, there was very little food. She’s German, so doesn’t always get the sympathy. They lost their wealth, their estate of many generations in East Prussia, but that wasn’t the worse part. The worse part was being hungry after the war or not being able to cope. Who knows what it was, but my Grandfather survived being a POW, but he couldn’t survive life after war. People didn’t talk. I don’t know if it is a generational thing, a German thing, a European thing or just war.
And regarding IQ, I hate going by that. I think grades and high IQ mean you are REALLY good at taking tests. Sometimes you are brilliant too, but high IQ does not equal brilliance (in my book
) But, many people, including respected Republicans, happen to think Clinton is brilliant, smart, funny and engaging, and I think they are right. And regarding what does “is” mean. OH GAWD, if you heard that proceding, it was absolutely ridiculous. The questions they were asking!!! Ask a ridiculous question and I bet you’ll get a ridiculous answer. NO, he didn’t want to admit to an affair. What politician would?
maybe I should get back to work?
Betsy (in MD)